"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some help.

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First, what's up guys. Now to the point, basically I need some help. Lately, I've become less social than I should be, stayin inside instead of going out. I need help on how to befriend more people and get invited to more parties. Also, it would be nice to be called to go out every so often. I'm at a slump right now and need some help on becoming more social.

Thanks in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok...no one replied to your distress signal, so I'm here to save the day.

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Lately, I've become less social than I should be, stayin inside instead of going out.
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Yeah there are times I feel the same way, where I don't feel like going out or anything, but it's up to you to change that! Call your buddies up (whether it's all guys, all girls, or a mix) and plan something out, or simply go out there on your own and get some #'s!

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I need help on how to befriend more people and get invited to more parties.
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Befriending people shouldn't be much of a problem. If you work on your social skills, or if your social skills are good as it is, you can make friends just about anywhere (my personal belief). As for the parties, it's up to you man. Either get friends to find out the latest parties around or start one of your own.

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Also, it would be nice to be called to go out every so often. I'm at a slump right now and need some help on becoming more social.
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It would be nice, but seriously let me tell you from my personal slump days, that if you wait for someone to call you to go out, chances are, it usually won't happen. Make the plans yourself, I can't stress that enough. If you're hungry, it's your job to go down to the kitchen and make yourself something to eat. The food won't get up and go to you and fix itself into a meal.
 
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Thanks man, I appreciate the help.
 
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