"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i need some help

Slippery Sam

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all right, so there's another topic about weed and im sure that nobody wants to read this, if you do though, thanks. i bought a little bit for christmas break (one gram) and no later than twenty minutes pass when my principal opens the door to my class and pulls me and my friend out and busts us. now im kicked out of my school which i really liked, i was on the wrestling team, i kept up my grades, and i had a lot of friends there. now i have to go to my local public high school which is coed, btw my old school was all guys. right now im more concerned with my future than hooking up with a few girls but i do not want to lose that opportunity. i start school next year after the break ends and unfortunately some of the kids at this new school hate me. i dont really know why but i used to be kind of weird and thats probably why. i do not want to take any **** that might come from people because i am a different person now than when some of the kids who go there knew me. any tips? thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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intrextrovert

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that sucks man... keep your grades up and do extracurric and you should be fine regarding future.

As for people, just right off the bat demonstrate you're a new person. Don't take **** from the past. Try to make friends with everyone, but if someone tries to slip you back into the old role ignore them or disabuse them. This is a great chance for you if you were stereotyped before, you have to decide who you want to be. Nothing will appear wierd, as they don't know you. Act like you want to, be who you want to. Join teams/clubs if they seem good to get to know people.

Also ra ra fellow wrestler.
 
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