Theres this girl I know. She's 14, I'm 16. She's a Freshman, I'm a Junior. She's about an 8. She's been acting real flirty towards me. I found this site around summertime an it's really changed my life. Me in this girl started out as friends. But about a few months back she started flirting with me alot. Now I'm worried because, she flirts other guys alittle but idk she treats me alot different. And see she always trying to hold my hand, hug me, wrap her arm around mines while walking (you name it she's probably done it) and She flirts with me ALOT and always text my phone. We've had hour long conversions via text messages and she really seems to like me and her bestfriend even ask me if I liked her (of course I found a way around the question). Even this past Sunday she said she wanted to "bond" with me alittle more. But idk, does this girl like me or is she just playing games?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I need some help.
- Thread starter rkc09
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If shes treating you differently to the other guys, I'd say shes keen. Shes probably only flirting with other guys, because some chicks like to be a tease, and get fun out of it, or she wants to make you jealous.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
1. Her flirting with other guys is to make you jealousrkc09 said:Theres this girl I know. She's 14, I'm 16. She's a Freshman, I'm a Junior. She's about an 8. She's been acting real flirty towards me. I found this site around summertime an it's really changed my life. Me in this girl started out as friends. But about a few months back she started flirting with me alot. Now I'm worried because, she flirts other guys alittle but idk she treats me alot different. And see she always trying to hold my hand, hug me, wrap her arm around mines while walking (you name it she's probably done it) and She flirts with me ALOT and always text my phone. We've had hour long conversions via text messages and she really seems to like me and her bestfriend even ask me if I liked her (of course I found a way around the question). Even this past Sunday she said she wanted to "bond" with me alittle more. But idk, does this girl like me or is she just playing games?
2. Her wanting to hold hands, hug and ect... could say she is into you. But, is it just as friends or sexually? You gotta decide.
3. She texts you alot and have had hour long conversations. This is where you messed up. Stop talking soo much on the phone.
4. Her friend asked if you liked her. She probably likes you and wants to know if you like her back.
5. She want's to hang out and bond more.
Some girls will give you all the signals that they like you. But, they only see you as friends. She seems to be into you. So, the only way to find out is by escalating things with her. Go in for the kiss. Use more kino in a sexual way.
what do you mean by that?jon3947 said:there is a chance she is only flirting with you because u are 2 years older than her
what do you mean by that?jon3947 said:there is a chance she is only flirting with you because u are 2 years older than her