"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need some help.

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shigi

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I have a gf and I've been dating this girl for the last year and half and for next 12 months we'll be living separately in a different city.

So, we this God given chance I've decided to improve my don juan techniques and pimp some *****es.

So, I've been seeing this girl. She's a visa student from japan and she was my roommate. She has a boyfriend but we've been chilling a lot together.

Monday - We went to the movies.
Wednesday - We went to a bar to drink, played some pool, went to karaoke
Thursday - Stayed home in her room just talking, playing games until 4 AM.
Friday - she moved to another place (she was going to move out this day even before she met me).

and ever since she moved out we werent able to talk often. she's been chilling with her bf again but not as much as we did. she told me that only reason she's dating her bf is because he likes her a lot and she was feeling lonley cuz she doesnt have many friends but she said she doesnt like him too much.

Even though we chilled throughout all these times, we havent hold hands, kissed, made out, etc... yet. It's sort of hard when we both know we have gf/bf u know?

I want to slam this ***** so hard. What shuold my next move be? do you think this girl has a thing for me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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follow the basics man. Isolate, Kiss her, sex, if she gives token resistance just agree with her and keep pushing things forward, if she resist for real then tell her you have needs and if she can't meet them its over (unless you have another use for her, friends, connections etc)
 
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in other words, what should you do now that you didn't try anything you had the chance all this time, and now that she's with her boyfriend, you are wishing you could get her alone again.

Why didn't you kiss her?

By this time, while with her boyfriend, she's feeling relieved and glad that she was able to resist temptation (her guilt is getting the best of her), when in reality, the only reason she didn't cheat was because you didn't take charge by making the first move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe you should just get straight to the point...ask her to come over and watch a movie with you again like old times. When your there make it comfortable and go for it ...plain and simple if she resists then continue your life and forget her because you fvcked up .
 
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yea i was goign to be straight up with her when i meet her next.
****ing gay. i didnt realize im too late, i was going to play it slow and pretend i ddint want her much. **** SON!!
 
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