I need some help please guys...

[spread_love]

There is this girl (well lol that is original), anyway, I met her a month or so ago at her work, a Restaurant/Bar and I introduced myself and chatted for a bit and asked what she likes to do for fun, I felt had a vibe.

I go there once a week, always say hello and maybe some small chat and I have noticed that she sorts of pushes her way forward to serve me at the bar, not only this but I am a big fan of cheesecake and twice they haven't had any for me, even though it's on the menu.

Today, she came over and I noticed she was all cute and nervous and explaining to me that the cheesecake wasn't set and asked me if I would like something else (I was with my Family for a farewell for one of my Brothers) so I ordered a Banana Split and she bought me back my money for the cheesecake and the banana split had like little cookie bears, wafers and lollies (and it normally just has banana,ice cream and a sauce) and when she bought it over she said I hope you enjoy it and said my name with a smile on her face and did this coy thing when I said thank you.

Is it just her being super friendly for the service or does she like me?, my Dad noticed her actions and she think she does as well, my problem is I haven't had a good run with girls for the past few years and I want to know how I should ask her out and in all honestly I am afraid of rejection.

Any tips and advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[joekerr31]

ask her out.

although be careful, because if you ask her out and she says no the sky might fall down and the end of hte world might be upon us. demons from hell will suddenly appear nad start eating babies and women will grow penises.

this is some serious sh*t dude!

but seriously, just ask her out. life is short. if you feel a vibe, ask her out and see what happens.

the worst that happens is that she says no. no big deal.

 

[squirrels]

Tell her next time to use the cookie bears to spell out her phone number.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Say, "Hey cheesecake, lets go to a real restaurant on your day off, KFC has some good chicken."

 

[Ever onward]

Listen to you! Reading into every little reaction trying to build evidence that she likes you.....

"Hmmmm, she put extra toppings on my banana split.....I knew it, she likes me!"

I can tease you about it because I've been there so many times! So many times I've come across girls and analyzed every little detail of the interaction. For instance, a long time ago I met a girl who worked in a book store. The first time I saw her I had walked into the store and she gave me this enthusiastic "hi!". I nearly sh!t my pants because it was such an obvious come on. So what did I do? I went back there time and again for a month straight looking for PROOF that she liked me. But eventually her interest level seemed to die off BECAUSE I never made a move. Long story short, I never asked her out.

Looking back now, I've went out with girls who seemed to have little or no interest in comparison to that girl I met at the book store. I just wish that I had the courage back then to make a move and ask her out.

Trust me buddy, regret is far worse than rejection.

 

[iqqi]

Tell her next time to use the cookie bears to spell out her phone number.

Someone get THIS guy a cookie. Or the hot girl from Wutang's thread. JK. But this is your answer right here. And if your daddy noticed it, it is there. Get her, tiger!

Let us know what happens.

 

[spread_love]

Listen to you! Reading into every little reaction trying to build evidence that she likes you.....

"Hmmmm, she put extra toppings on my banana split.....I knew it, she likes me!"

I can tease you about it because I've been there so many times! So many times I've come across girls and analyzed every little detail of the interaction. For instance, a long time ago I met a girl who worked in a book store. The first time I saw her I had walked into the store and she gave me this enthusiastic "hi!". I nearly sh!t my pants because it was such an obvious come on. So what did I do? I went back there time and again for a month straight looking for PROOF that she liked me. But eventually her interest level seemed to die off BECAUSE I never made a move. Long story short, I never asked her out.

Looking back now, I've went out with girls who seemed to have little or no interest in comparison to that girl I met at the book store. I just wish that I had the courage back then to make a move and ask her out.

Trust me buddy, regret is far worse than rejection.

That's why I posted this and I thought if I remembered every little detail, then it would help other posters to give me advice and tips.

I was cheated on in my last longterm relationship and the slut ****ed my ex friend because the loser plied her with E one night and anyway...I find it hard to trust people to be honest with you friend.

In conclusion, I wasn't trying to build evidence, maybe I am not ready yet...I did quite well in my 20's and now in my early 30's things are so different and a lot of people are sheep and fake.

 

[spread_love]

ask her out.

although be careful, because if you ask her out and she says no the sky might fall down and the end of hte world might be upon us. demons from hell will suddenly appear nad start eating babies and women will grow penises.

this is some serious sh*t dude!

but seriously, just ask her out. life is short. if you feel a vibe, ask her out and see what happens.

the worst that happens is that she says no. no big deal.

The No is what I am afraid of, I'm only human, but you are right I should just get some balls and do it.

 

[STR8UP]

I was cheated on in my last longterm relationship and the slut ****ed my ex friend because the loser plied her with E one night and anyway...I find it hard to trust people to be honest with you friend.

In conclusion, I wasn't trying to build evidence, maybe I am not ready yet...I did quite well in my 20's and now in my early 30's things are so different and a lot of people are sheep and fake.

I right there with you my friend.

When the people closest to you violate the trust you took for granted, how can you have any trust in people you don't know as well?

When you look behind the thin veil of humanity the world is indeed an ugly place....

 

[Ever onward]

That's why I posted this and I thought if I remembered every little detail, then it would help other posters to give me advice and tips.

I was cheated on in my last longterm relationship and the slut ****ed my ex friend because the loser plied her with E one night and anyway...I find it hard to trust people to be honest with you friend.

In conclusion, I wasn't trying to build evidence, maybe I am not ready yet...I did quite well in my 20's and now in my early 30's things are so different and a lot of people are sheep and fake.

Trust me man, I wasn't making fun of you for what you are doing. It's quite natural and I still do the same thing on occasion. You absolutely are trying to build evidence for your case that she likes you and there is NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. You want to make absolutely sure that she likes you before you pull the trigger right? So every little detail you see as PROOF that she is in to you.

I'm just saying it's better for you to stop analyzing the situation and just go for it. You say that you've been hurt in the past. We all have man. But you can't let that **** stop you from living life. Life is too short not to go after what you want. But only do it if you are ready.