"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need some help big time

lilplaya248

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Alright ladies and gentleman its time to get down to busniess.

Im going to keep it real with all yall with everything I have to say. Iam going to write some things up that I need help with big time which is probley everything about girls and dating.

Alright first off Iam 15 years old and Iam black, and mostly attracted to girls my age and I like asian girls, latina girls, black girls, mixed girls well I like em all if I think they are cute. And I have no game what so ever when it comes to getting girls. I mean my game is weak. What I need some help with is what U should do on the approach becuase I think thats the most important part in meeting a girl, becuase it gets you in there and it kind of tells what you about but thats just me. I have some stuff adn they say just say hi.

But for some reason that dosent work for the girls me age. Simply saying hi is going to get you emberresed by her and believe me I know. Girls me age you seem to have to have alot of game. Just like when I just say hi they would look at me funny and be like hi in a attiude voice or not interested voice and there facial expressions tells alot to.

Do you guys have any good conversation starters for my age group that could open them up for a conversation and make a good impression on them to. And also what kind of things should I talk about in the conversation as I seem boring and not able to come up with anything interesting. And how do I know that well maybe becuase when I do get a girl to talk in the conversation she does the humph... or whatever like she is just wasting her time. But those are the two main things that I need. And whatver other information that you guys think would help me out please do so.

I also have spent some money on those seduction books and stuff but they all seem like they are for adults. I think somebody should write a teenage sedution guide. Or a book for young people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Why does the fact youre black matter? Same with the type of girls you like??

Anyway, if you want to worry about what to say dont. Concern youself with doing something about the shyness. If youre comfortable enough say not so normal things then youll be good to go.

PS. The hs dj bible is here for a reason
 

jonny football hero

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You're over analysing. Just chill.....

Hi, my name is lilplaya, i'm bored and i want to meet new people.
 

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(Oakraiderz2) You know what bro I dont really know what I was thinking when I put that in there. Really I just wanted to discribe myself a little better I guess. But Iam not racial or anything Iam far from that if you where thinking that. Sorry for the misunderstanding bro.

(Jonny) Yea you are right maybe Iam just over doing it and need to just chill. That line you gave me it seems usable I will field test it and see what happens. But I guess I got to stop being shy, and nervers all the time and get out there and and just do it.
 

jonny football hero

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and nervers all the time and get out there and and just do it.
Yeah. Thats the spirit. I woke up one day and thought enough of this sh!t, and went out to get rejected. That way i knew it wasn't so bad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The best opener is one that allows your target to relate to you.
 
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