I need some game....

[Immaculate]

what's up fellas
here's the deal.. I don't have a problem approaching a girl and getting the # and calling her and getting a date.. my problem is When I'm on the date.. I'm lacking serious game here... Sometimes I can't think of anything to say and there is silence which is terrible and her interest level goes downhill.. I think I'm a bit shy and I need to get over it .. I need some tips I may have a date coming up with a REAL hot girl I met on the internet.. She's real smart too she says she has a Masters Degree.. I need advice on how to bag this girll HELP

 

[Big Pappy]

So, you want to "bag" a master's level girl?

First, before you do anything else, forget about bagging her!

Do not focus the evening on her. Focus the evening on the activity that you have planned.

What is her master's in? This provides you with a decent indicator of her intellectual capacity. The higher this is,(intellectual capacity) the more likely that she's going to recognize your game, and either not play it, or play it better than you.

You must have the date focused on activity. Most girls are bored spitless just sitting there and droning on and on about themselves, or worse, hearing you talk about you. From what you've posted, this is not a big concern. She may help you here if she's naturally talkative or has mid to high interest level.

Other than that, a fine post by a fellow whose name escapes me, pointed out that you could ask questions of the lady by recognizing the nouns in her previous sentence.


Practice makes perfect. Go to the mall and talk to strange, beautiful women. This will help!

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Big Pappy
So, you want to "bag" a master's level girl?

First, before you do anything else, forget about bagging her!

Do not focus the evening on her. Focus the evening on the activity that you have planned.

What is her master's in? This provides you with a decent indicator of her intellectual capacity. The higher this is,(intellectual capacity) the more likely that she's going to recognize your game, and either not play it, or play it better than you.

You must have the date focused on activity. Most girls are bored spitless just sitting there and droning on and on about themselves, or worse, hearing you talk about you. From what you've posted, this is not a big concern. She may help you here if she's naturally talkative or has mid to high interest level.

Other than that, a fine post by a fellow whose name escapes me, pointed out that you could ask questions of the lady by recognizing the nouns in her previous sentence.


Practice makes perfect. Go to the mall and talk to strange, beautiful women. This will help!

thanks.. She has a master in PSYCHOLOGY .. this can't be good.. plus she's a Psychotherapist...So you're saying we shouldn't just go eat lunch or dinner or whatever, and do something active instead.. like what?

oh man.. should I even attempt this?

EDIT: Big Pappy are you the guy with the instant message quotes? Can ya hook me up with those?

 

[laskoe]

Communicate with your eyes. .
look at her lips , her eyes , and breats
she will understand that !

 

[squirrels]

Pappy's right-on...just focus on having a good time. On sharing a good time with her.

No matter how many "DJ tactics" you employ, a girl is not going to be into a guy who spends a whole date focused on how to impress/entertain/seduce her. She wants an experience out of you. Likewise, you shouldn't focus on whether you're impressing her, or even whether she's impressing you. Just enjoy the experience. That's how you tell if you want to be with someone...if their presence enriches the already enjoyable experience.

Girls are the icing, not the cake. (although I used to LOVE just attacking the icing when I was a kid )

 

[Craig Reeves]

I'd actually kind of write down some things to discuss with her. Yes, you heard me.....write some things down and memorize them. This way, you probably won't be at a loss of things to talk about.

Make sure your topics revolve around FEELINGS and not facts. Make sure they are FUN, and INTERESTING things, ex. "So how do you feel about (insert fun and interesting topic)".

Avoid boring topics like school, work, weather, etc., and especially avoid COURTING questions (questions that basically suggest that you are trying to hook up with her. ex: "So what kind of guys are you into?").

Treat her like a FRIEND, but make moves when you see fit. This will send her mixed messages, and women LOVE this.

Once you have your topics planned, bring them up on the date and tease her answers and use C+F to kee the conversation going. Don't focus on trying to show HER a good time, focus on YOURSELF having a good time -- cuz here's a secret.....if YOU'RE having a good time, then she probably is too. Good luck!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Immaculate
thanks.. She has a master in PSYCHOLOGY .. this can't be good.. plus she's a Psychotherapist...So you're saying we shouldn't just go eat lunch or dinner or whatever, and do something active instead.. like what?

oh man.. should I even attempt this?

Don't sweat the Psych degree, many therapists have the same issues and concerns that everyone else has. The one thing that is usually different with them is that they are usally "gung ho" on working on their relationship issues before they get out of control.

Whatever you decide to do with this woman, be conversational in at least asking her about herself. Ask her about her profession, ask her how it helps her personally. This should give you a ton of insite about her.