I don't have any real friends it seems, only when they want something is when I hear from them. I don't really know how to go about making new friends 
as for girls I have been going on dates here and there but it seems every girl has a boyfriend or just isn't interested. here are some of my situations and these are recent
1)this girl tells one of my friends to tell me to come get her #, so I do. I call her the next day to see if she wants to go out no answer called 3 times. I call 2 days later, get in touch with her and see if she wants to go out, she tells me she is in a situation right now. I tell her well you have my # call me if you want to go out sometime.
5 days later I see her she tells me to give her a call, and I am thinking to myself "I already called you once and you didn't want to go out" so I call, setup a date. we go out everything goes well hug at the end of the day and tells me to call her. I call 2 days later, we talk and keep in touch for the next few days. I try to setup another date 2 days in a row can't get her to go out, but she will go out with her friends. so I dropped her. my mom see's here about 3 days ago and talks to her and she tells my mom to tell me to call her that her mom won't let her call because of the phone bill then I think to myself again "why not buy a phone card?" for the record I'm not calling her.
2)I call this girl whom I had went out with 4 months ago or so on a date and ended up puking all over myself in front of her 2 friends and mine, one of the most embarassing moments of my life. after that incident the same night they still insist I go and eat with them after I cleaned myself up a bit. so I did, the night went well and prevailed, but was too embarassed to ask for her #. one of her friends who is fat, not grotesquely but kind of big leaves her wallet in my car, I contact her on msn and ask her how she wants me to get it back to her, so a few days later I ask her to call her friend that I was trying to hook up with on puke night, she says she called and told me that the girl I was after was already going to the movies with someone, she called but a friend of mine told me that she didn't even mention my name to her to see if she wanted to go on a date with me . so this fat chick then asks me if I want to go out the next day, I end up going which I was desperate anyways to get laid. i go out with this chick 3 times get laid last 2, then I tell her I am done with her.
so now back to the girl I was after, we exchange emails for a week or two, I get her #. I called her last week, we talk while I am changing strings on my guitar. I keep a convorsation going, I let her do all the talking because she was just pouring out. previosly i had called her earlier in the day the 3rd thing she said was how are me and the fat chick doing? i told her we no longer talk, then she asks if I was in it for the sex? i told her we never had sex ;p my buddy has my back on this btw, his gf is friends with this girl. so the girl I am after tells me she will call me later which was when I was changing my guitar strings. again I keep the convo going and let her do all the talking, she tells me I'm not talking much that I have only said like 20 words, i ask her if she's keeping count. I then say something can't remember what, and she calls me a jerk. after she said the 20 word deal though she is like my cell phone battery is dying. I ask her if I need to go, she says yes, so I tell her talk to you later. done deal, hasn't called back since nor have I tryed to call anymore.
as for girls I have been going on dates here and there but it seems every girl has a boyfriend or just isn't interested. here are some of my situations and these are recent 1)this girl tells one of my friends to tell me to come get her #, so I do. I call her the next day to see if she wants to go out no answer called 3 times. I call 2 days later, get in touch with her and see if she wants to go out, she tells me she is in a situation right now. I tell her well you have my # call me if you want to go out sometime.
5 days later I see her she tells me to give her a call, and I am thinking to myself "I already called you once and you didn't want to go out" so I call, setup a date. we go out everything goes well hug at the end of the day and tells me to call her. I call 2 days later, we talk and keep in touch for the next few days. I try to setup another date 2 days in a row can't get her to go out, but she will go out with her friends. so I dropped her. my mom see's here about 3 days ago and talks to her and she tells my mom to tell me to call her that her mom won't let her call because of the phone bill then I think to myself again "why not buy a phone card?" for the record I'm not calling her.
2)I call this girl whom I had went out with 4 months ago or so on a date and ended up puking all over myself in front of her 2 friends and mine, one of the most embarassing moments of my life. after that incident the same night they still insist I go and eat with them after I cleaned myself up a bit. so I did, the night went well and prevailed, but was too embarassed to ask for her #. one of her friends who is fat, not grotesquely but kind of big leaves her wallet in my car, I contact her on msn and ask her how she wants me to get it back to her, so a few days later I ask her to call her friend that I was trying to hook up with on puke night, she says she called and told me that the girl I was after was already going to the movies with someone, she called but a friend of mine told me that she didn't even mention my name to her to see if she wanted to go on a date with me . so this fat chick then asks me if I want to go out the next day, I end up going which I was desperate anyways to get laid. i go out with this chick 3 times get laid last 2, then I tell her I am done with her.
so now back to the girl I was after, we exchange emails for a week or two, I get her #. I called her last week, we talk while I am changing strings on my guitar. I keep a convorsation going, I let her do all the talking because she was just pouring out. previosly i had called her earlier in the day the 3rd thing she said was how are me and the fat chick doing? i told her we no longer talk, then she asks if I was in it for the sex? i told her we never had sex ;p my buddy has my back on this btw, his gf is friends with this girl. so the girl I am after tells me she will call me later which was when I was changing my guitar strings. again I keep the convo going and let her do all the talking, she tells me I'm not talking much that I have only said like 20 words, i ask her if she's keeping count. I then say something can't remember what, and she calls me a jerk. after she said the 20 word deal though she is like my cell phone battery is dying. I ask her if I need to go, she says yes, so I tell her talk to you later. done deal, hasn't called back since nor have I tryed to call anymore.