"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i need some flirting pointers.

johnny_depp

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its weird but for some reason at my work place I am no longer afraid to talk to girls, i am so fukin happy. but the thing is i want to learn how to flirt with girls i think that would be so fukin cool:) see my whole life i was never a ladies man, actually to tell you the truth i was afraid of rejection but now i really dont give a fuk. please give me some flirting pointers? thanks a whole lot. i really think this would help.:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Tease them, joke around with them, pretty much just have fun.
 

timeforacatnap

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vibe, call them on their banter, and use standard PUA techniques, push pull, negs, ****y funny.

calibrate your energy level to be equal or higher than the girl your are flirting with, flirting witha girl in a coffee shop will be very different than flirting with a girl on the dance floor.

touch (kino) this is amazingly sexual even when its perceived to be non sexual.

humour is natures aphrodesiac so dont forget to get her rolling on the floor laughing.

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