"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i need some flirting pointers.

johnny_depp

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its weird but for some reason at my work place I am no longer afraid to talk to girls, i am so fukin happy. but the thing is i want to learn how to flirt with girls i think that would be so fukin cool:) see my whole life i was never a ladies man, actually to tell you the truth i was afraid of rejection but now i really dont give a fuk. please give me some flirting pointers? thanks a whole lot. i really think this would help.:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Tease them, joke around with them, pretty much just have fun.
 

timeforacatnap

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vibe, call them on their banter, and use standard PUA techniques, push pull, negs, ****y funny.

calibrate your energy level to be equal or higher than the girl your are flirting with, flirting witha girl in a coffee shop will be very different than flirting with a girl on the dance floor.

touch (kino) this is amazingly sexual even when its perceived to be non sexual.

humour is natures aphrodesiac so dont forget to get her rolling on the floor laughing.

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