"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I need some advice

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Hey guys...I need some advice! Right now I'm a freshman in high school and there are these 2 fine girls in my grade that I hang out with a lot. Which is cool because the 3 of us and about 5 or 6 of my other friends always go to each others houses and stuff. Well tonight after a basketball game I see these 2 girls hanging out with some junior and senior guys at Taco Bell...I walk in and they're all like "hey bob!" and one of the the 2 girls started telling me how hot I was. Then 2 seconds later they act like I'm not even there and start flirting with the other guys.

My question is: What's up with this? I'm alright to hang out only when they don't have upperclassmen to hang out with?:confused:

Thank you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Then 2 seconds later they act like I'm not even there and start flirting with the other guys.
Did you just passively stand there waiting for them to give you attention? Did you actively try to be a part of the interaction?
 

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Hey guys...I need some advice! Right now I'm a freshman in high school and there are these 2 fine girls in my grade that I hang out with a lot. Which is cool because the 3 of us and about 5 or 6 of my other friends always go to each others houses and stuff. Well tonight after a basketball game I see these 2 girls hanging out with some junior and senior guys at Taco Bell...I walk in and they're all like "hey bob!" and one of the the 2 girls started telling me how hot I was. Then 2 seconds later they act like I'm not even there and start flirting with the other guys.

My question is: What's up with this? I'm alright to hang out only when they don't have upperclassmen to hang out with?:confused:

Thank you!
Teenage chicks. How much value do you have in their eyes?

Don't commit to any girl under 25. Do not take any thing they say at face value and if they treat you like this then withdraw 100% of the attention you were giving them.

They were looking to entertain themselves by mocking you. Do not react give nothing back and treat them with total and complete indifference
 
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