I need some advice

[frivolousz21]

Ive been a bit mean lately...

I pretty much am taking arrogence/**** and funny/confidence to far.


last night I was at a new years party....and I really layed some **** out....jokes/sarcasm....I didnt come off as he is out of place since its natural...I wasnt really looking to pick up a lady..but I cant continue like this..

I am treating talking to women like talking to a friend...Yes I know that is a good thing...but not when im literally busting a womens balls..I can see some of the stuff it funny but some is to much. I really need to get back to where I was 3 years ago..where I was more kind...im so used to being around men..not afc guys..I mean real men..that Im coming off like a big arrogent jerk to much.


truth be told..I am not sure how to get back to being able to really communicate when women speak. It is if I forgot..I suppose I will have to practice

but Id appreciate some reading material.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You're still a little bitter towards women after ending a LTR. It will go away with time.

Regarding at least interpreting what women say, a trick that was in the old 'Men are from Mars, women from Venus' book is to place the words 'I feel as though' in front of everything they say. Words just express feelings, which for women are usually fleeting and illogical.

 

[frivolousz21]

You're still a little bitter towards women after ending a LTR. It will go away with time.

Regarding at least interpreting what women say, a trick that was in the old 'Men are from Mars, women from Venus' book is to place the words 'I feel as though' in front of everything they say. Words just express feelings, which for women are usually fleeting and illogical.

that is completely true...and that is partly where my bitterness or better than women feeling is coming from.

I have zero patience right now for fleeting and illogical.

I know a women who is 23 years old...its one thing if she complains about not having a BF or whatever if she is honest on why...if she said" I need to lose weight and be healthier and positive and i will meet a better guy" that would be great.

if I complain that I am unhappy in my life or this and that..I know why...right now I KNOW I CANNOT PULL THE SAME WOMEN I DID 3 YEARS AGO BECAUSE I AM WAY OUT OF SHAPE.

so there is no need to sit and cry about it..instead I got into the gym...made a plan and will unfold that plan.

However this woman..who I only care about as a friend..has been the same way since I met her....illogical..and that is hard to take..she doesn't want to hear the truth that she is fat.

she wishes her prince charming would show up anyways and look like ****ing Matt Damon or something.


If there is a GOD...I hope this god will grant me to meet a prety LOGICAL women who likes science and sports

is that to much to ask for :wave:

 

[Bible_Belt]

You can never tell a woman she's the slightest bit overweight; they all think they're fat and none of them want to hear it.

You can get a pretty woman who likes sports. I have seen plenty of hb Cardinal and Ram fans on myspace. You are fortunate to live near a major city with lots of available women. Good luck on the logical and the science part, though.