"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need some advice...

Trailblazer

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Last summer I fell in love with my friend's sister. Before that she had been only my friend. Soon I got to know that she feels the same. So there were many-many months of love and romance, it was so beautiful, it was true love. Until one party that took place at my friend’s home... I had to leave quite early, when I left my girl kissed me for goodbye. But two days later I heard a awful thing, my girl broke our relationship, because she didnt feel the same that had been before. To be honest, I cried all the night, I couldnt belive that what had happened. Later I heard from a person who had been at the party till the end, that one guy had started talking with my girl and I dont want to talk about what had happened later.
I know that my girl was only simple adventure for that jerk, but I was not able to do anything about it. My girl said that everything is over between us. Now, three months later, they broke up because that guy was dating another girl at the same time. My ex-girlfriend has blind love against this guy, she doesn’t understand that the guy is only a jerk.
I would like to know, how should I act to light the love between us again. What I have to do, to get my girl back, I know that she hasnt lost her feelings, her feelings are lost into the depth of his heart. How to bring them back again...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LunaMia01

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I have gone thru a heart ache too.I could never forgive anyone for cheating on me or leaving me.How can you be a friend to someone who did not care for your feelings? *This is my advise anyway.*
 

foomee

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Buddy... don't try to re-ignite the love between you two, you have to move on. If you try, this same situation is going to happen again. One day you'll be head over heels for eachother, and then the next she meets a guy and it's over. Find someone else, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
 
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