I need some advice plz

[farlenrejorano]

Well, I'm 15 and I'm really attracted to a classmate...It looked like she somehow liked me, but I wasn't sure because she is kinda shy and mysterious so I couldn't really find that...But in the last two weeks she started to give me signs of high interest and I am pretty sure she's attracted to me too...

So my point is...I want to go out with her, I know that she's into me...But would it be too awkward if I call her to go out alone with me or is it better to call some friends with us and hope I can get her alone for sometime?!?

I talk to her almost everyday in school, I'm sure I can sustain a conversation easily with her...But I was wondering what would be the best way to call her out...Any help welcome...

Thanks

 

[Bling]

Well if she has signs of interest, roll the dice and ask her out. Ask for her phone number, tell her you're going bowling on so and so day. Would she like to tag along. Escalate the kino. Nuff said.

 

[farlenrejorano]

bowling looks good but my goal is to kiss her when we go out...I know it's a lot easier to build comfort and kiss if we go out alone, but I don't know if she would feel awkward by going out alone with me...

I wanna risk but I'm afraid of screwing it up by being too forward...

 

[navyseal2101]

Just dont overthink it and psyche yourself out. Dont be afraid to screw things up, just go for it and ask her out exclusivly, it may help to ask her out alone b/c it shows you confident enough to ask.

 

[farlenrejorano]

that's it...thanks a lot for the help

is it a good idea asking her for a movie or so?...people say that's bad because we won't talk a lot to each other, but we are classmates and I talk to her almost everyday between the classes...

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

lol a goal to kiss her.

how about you make you're goal to take her out and give her a good time. and see where it leads you.

 

[nicenomore]

Just dont overthink it and psyche yourself out. Dont be afraid to screw things up, just go for it and ask her out exclusivly, it may help to ask her out alone b/c it shows you confident enough to ask.

totally true.........
gootta agree..

dont just sit and think how it will go , go out and do it. Free your mind.

As an observation (though not always), i've seen that girls generally dont go out alone with you on the first meet , they usually go alongwith a bunch of friends. Its only the second meet where they'll go out alone with you.

 

[farlenrejorano]

lol a goal to kiss her.

how about you make you're goal to take her out and give her a good time. and see where it leads you.

got to agree with you...maybe I expressed myself badly...I was trying to say that it would be much harder to reach "where it leads me" with a lot of people with us...sure I wanna give her a good time

totally true.........
gootta agree..

dont just sit and think how it will go , go out and do it. Free your mind.

As an observation (though not always), i've seen that girls generally dont go out alone with you on the first meet , they usually go alongwith a bunch of friends. Its only the second meet where they'll go out alone with you.

does it seems a good idea to just call her and if she asks who is coming with us, I say that it just us unless she wanna call someone else?!? or would it be an AFC move?!?

thanks for the help guys

 

[playa99]

jus ring her, say "you wanna hang out sometime this week" then jus make your move man, youve gotta go for it on this one, you can risk it, if shes showing high signs of interest, she LIKES you end of

 

[playa99]

also dont think about if as said before, let yourself go, then you are on the road to becoming a true don juan