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the_m@n

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Ok, so I saw a picture of this girl I used to hang out with regularly about 4 to5 years ago and she looked good. Somewhere along the line we went separate ways and I haven't talked to her much at all in 3-4 years. My problem is, when I was spending a lot of time with her I was definitely an AFC.

I decided to take the bull by the horns the other day and just sent her a message out of the blue telling her that I missed her company and we should get together to catch up. She responded that she felt the same way and we are meeting up for drinks this week.

My dilemma is that I'm not quite sure how to dial it up and turn an "AFC friend" from 4 years ago into something more, assuming that I still find her amusing. I always got the impression that we had a certain level of sexual chemistry but nothing ever came of it. It was definitely enough of a chemistry to make my now ex gf jealous of me hanging out with her, which reflecting on now is probably the reason for us (me and the friend) parting ways in the first place.

Is it possible to turn the relationship in this way or am I wasting my time? I feel like my new confidence and overall appeal is much more attractive to any woman, but I don't want to beat a dead horse so to speak.
 

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Don't be simply "amusing" anymore. Be more alpha male, even if you have to pretend. You should also try not to focus too much on her, because opportunities with other women are out there. Don't put your eggs in one basket. AFC's often try to recycle past women, and focus on them only, because that's the last one that they had an effective relationship with. New women, new opportunities.:p
 
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I'm definitely not all about her at all. I have other dates with diff women lined up also. I was just questioning whether being alpha was enough in this particular scenario. I wasn't aware if there was a different angle in this kind of circumstance. Thank you for the input. You are reassuring me of what I already knew that I needed to do.
 
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Then definitely try it out, being Alpha. We'd love to hear the results!:cool:
 
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