"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need some advice/help/opinion

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Hi, I'm kind of new here. Btw i'm in highschool
I will cut to the chase and just say what i'm dealing with.
I don't have very much experience (almost none) with girls and dating.
I think i can make girls attracted to me or interested because i did this before ,but the problem is that eventhough i think i can i don't make the first step or make it more than flirting ... I think is because i'm afraid of the unknown, of whan WILL happen because i hadn't had that experience before and i don't want to screw it up and make a fool of myself.
It would be great if some of you gave me some advice or just help me pass this thing.
Thnaks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had a fear of kissing because I hadn't done it in 2 years. How I passed it? I did it.
I had not kissed several girls and lost them. The window closed, simply.
At last I got fed up and made out with a girl 5 months ago. I passed several chances, but I eventually made my own opportunity and did it.
In other words, it will be fine. Just realize that you must always do it. The first thing of anything is often scary.
Being scared if not a legitimate reason not to do something.
 
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So you're saying whenever fear steps in I should just go for it...
I was scared of initiating because i don't know wht to do next cause I never did it
 
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There will always be that first time, and you will never know what to do untill you've done it.
 
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thanks, man.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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