"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need some advice, anyone experienced something like this.

Sammo

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I do my best to help all you guys out and I try to ensure everyone see's the brighter side of the situation but here is something im putting forward to you guys.

Now recently i have been working on these 2 identical twins to make things a little more interesting, they are about HB9's (I'm not easy to impress, there actually models), after a while i decided that one twin, lets call her A, has a better attitude then the other one.

When it came to write in the year book (end of school) she wrote in mine 3 times, all sexual and showing massive interest levels considering she wouldnt ever give anyone the time of day. Now thanks to some advice from Matrix i have got her absolutely obsessed with me, she was all over me at the pool today and i was only giving her a bit of my attention and she was eating it all up. Its interesting how the hottest girls are the easiest to seduce, isnt it?

I said my farewells at the end of the day, and she was sms'ing me alll that afternoon. She knows im working tomorrow and she said shes going to come into my work to say hi. She keeps hinting that she wants to hook up at the after formal party (next tuesday). This is all well and good... But something is worrying me.

Since this girl started showing interest everything has flowed naturally, the conversations were brilliant without having to put in any effort at all, but still this worries me. What if i do go for it and i become attatched, i honestly can see it happen because she is exatly my type and i know if things get ugly im going to end up hurt and there is no way i want to let that happen again.

Surely resisting the temptation will be a marvelous test of will, but perhaps i should go for it? I mean she is gorgeous, has ambition, wonderful to talk to, playful, and naughty. What should i do? Anyone that has been in a similair situation could you please help me out.

Thanks, any help is appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Theres also a set of Hot twins at my school, atleast 9's. And every guy at school wants in their pants. Your right though, some of the hottest chicks are the easiest to suduce. Far as rather you should ask her out or not.

WHY THE HECK NOT...

Worse case secnario: she goes out with you for a week then breaks up with you and tells you she needs some space or something.

Best case secnario: You both get married and have lil identical sammo jr's running around:D


Relax....................
 

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Im in the same boat as you. I recently met the proverbial "girl of my dreams" and i have a feeling things could go berzerk.

However, im just going to go with the flow and let things fall as they may. Go for it bro, you only live once! (how cliche hah)
 

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Yeah its a risk, but so is everything we do to rise above the rest. You're at the hurdle where jerks fall down- they get a phobia of being hurt. Afraid of being hurt? What does that sound like!;) Go for it, speaking from experience when things go nasty, really mind blowingly painfuly nasty, you can pick yourself up. The world will never end because of a girl (or for that matter ****ty "friends").

Go for it- no regrets. If it doesn't work out you just have to put it down to experience and take it on the chin. Best of luck to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I can understand your doubt, but why play the game if you're gonna quit in the 4th quarter?

The hard work is done, now it's time for you to reap the benefits of your DJ talent...
 

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All right guys, your support has really helped me, i will be seeing her later this afternoon and everything else is history.. Thanks guys.

An interesting concept rose to mind while going through this whole thing, i'm not afraid of being hurt.. I have been hurt before and i am one to let things like that drive me further. What i was afraid is to lose it all, in a similair sense that average working class people have to make money they end up staying in mediocre jobs, it's fear, fear that they will lose all their material posesions is what keeps them working jobs they hate.
 

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I'd go for it. So I say go for it, but be careful.

Go with you're gut man. You have the mindset so just take it with stride and try not to get too attached too quick.

"Dont treat no hoe good unless you're sure of the scoop"
-Slick Rick
 
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