I need some 1st date tips!!

[jackhamma]

I met this beautiful girl Saturday at a friends house party and we hit it off right away. She was very touchy/flirty the whole night with me and I ended up kissing at the end of the night and she commented how I was a good kisser. This whole time btw we were both sober...we were both D.D.

I set up a date with her for tomorrow at 7pm. We have been talking back and forth via text since Sunday and building rapport.

I remember her at one point saying "usually you would not be my type...but I am really into you..." I can't remember what she said after that because there was a lot going on at the house party.

Anyways I am going to see her tomorrow at a coffee spot. I am usually fine with 1st dates but this one I am digging big time!

Any tips or anything of what to do/not to do would be great! Thank you!

 

[VladPatton]

Coffee is perfect. See what she's about without 20,000 watts of music blasting in your head. Since you nailed a makeout session, it should be easy from there. Just talk, and don't get into her all 100% until you know what she's all about. Feel free to disagree with her and be confident in your persona no matter what. Good luck!

 

[Maximus Rex]

What is Your Plan

Give a game plan of what you plan on doing with this chick over the next month or so and why it would or wouldn't towards your end goal of knowing her carnally.

 

[Don-Kong]

She's already gamed you. Not usually her type but....
Saying that she said she was really into you but we don't know the context of that. I've said I love you to girls before just bantering and getting a reaction so we don't know her true intent yet. just watch oneitis doesn't set in and you get infatuation fever moulding her into something she ain't. Facts facts facts!

 

[jackhamma]

Dates tonight and just wanted some last minute tips please!

I didn't text her all of wednesday and she texted me this morning to confirm the date ;p

She loved how blunt I was when we first met, and my persona of being confident and not agreeing with everything. Also my Kino was high and we kissed.

For this date should I deliver the same approach? Kino, bluntness, go for a kiss again?

 

[SgtSplacker]

You just met this girl and already you have decided you like her. And she even told you straight up that you were not her type.

Building rapport with texts?

Calling getting a coffee a date? certainly meeting minimal standards for a "date" here aren't we?

I mean the coffee idea is fine, but i'd hesitate celebrating it as an official date too much. <== not ranking on your "Date" but you need to raise the bar on what you consider a date if you want to really impress a woman that's on the fence about you.

Look this girl already straight up told you there are things about you she doesn't like. The last thing you want to do is be too available, because that would just prove to her that those qualities she didn't like make you less desirable to the rest of the world and therefore more available to her.

Right now things are fresh, i'm almost positive there will be a reconciliation of emotions on her part coming soon. She will pull back a bit in a while, and if you are all out there about to declare your love it will be ugly because men rarely see this coming. When she reconciles she needs to know that she does not have you. You must remain a challenge for the first couple months at least. Do not confirm that you are lower quality than her by accepting her too quickly.

Check that HO!

And good luck.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Dates tonight and just wanted some last minute tips please!

I didn't text her all of wednesday and she texted me this morning to confirm the date ;p

She loved how blunt I was when we first met, and my persona of being confident and not agreeing with everything. Also my Kino was high and we kissed.

For this date should I deliver the same approach? Kino, bluntness, go for a kiss again?

Always move forward, never backward. If you've already kino'd (and she's been accepting of it), been blunt (but not in a mean way) and kissed her, do these things on the date as well.

At any rate, I've been in this same scenario with a girl I met at a party once. We went out on 3 dates and I made it a point to NOT try and go for sex. Turns out, if you make them wait for it a bit, the sex is pretty awesome when you have it 'cause they're all riled up and ready to POUNCE on you - which, in this girl's case, she did on date #4 by giving me the invite to HER place (instead of the other way around - funny how they'll passively ask you for sex when you've made them wait a bit, lol). I say this to say, go on the date, don't stay longer than 90 minutes tops, make sure to kino her (but don't touch her in the sexualized areas yet - again, have her practically grabbing your hands and placing them there), and at the end of the date kiss her and head home.

If you do this, you'll find that (a) you'll have a better date because since you've taken sex off the table you won't be disappointed when it doesn't happen, and (b) she'll like you even MORE because you'll be standing out from all the other guys trying to score with her on first dates... but it'll also make her hamster wheel run pondering WHY you didn't try anything... which will make her want to try harder to impress you on date #2, and will most likely result in you scoring with her then (as has been the case in my dating life - every one is different, but it works pretty dang well).

That's all I got - hope this helps!