"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In my study hall class there is this girl named leah. She had returned to my school after going to a private school but she was in our hs before. I know who she is but she doesnt recognise me. Im wondering what to say to her becasue i think i like her
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just approach her and act offended in a playful way that she doesn't remember all the "great" things you did back in the day.
 
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hey man Just like LikRetsam said go up to here and act offended and joke w/ her i no that w/ a girl i knew kinda same thing knew her she didn't know me i was like wow you seriosly don't remember me that hurts there goes my self esteem and laughed and said doesn't really surprise me at all i heard about how you thought the world revolves around you guess it's all true" make sure this comes off as a joke since first time don't think girl caught on to that and she wasn't to happy about that comment but to tie all this together it ended up her not asking me out but begging me to go out w/ her to let her show me how she really is just go for it you won't gain anyhting by just sitting there
 
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If you cant do that though, cos you gonna need to be pretty confident to do that, go up and just say hi and make her laugh... Make her wish she DID remember you

throw something cheesey in and laugh about it: just go and meet her... besure to sweep her off her feet
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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