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Specifically with night game. I recently found a decent venue with good sex ratios and the women are young good looking and are available. In fact I was approached two times without me really doing anything. Even with that said I still struggle with the process. I have been going to bars and a few clubs for a few months now. I've gotten better with day game with some success. Nothing at night.
I am considering going too a boot camp or finding a coach. Does anyone have suggestions? I have heard a lot about RSD but I dont feel like paying an arm and leg.
 

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The best you can do is just talk to them

But night game is practically dead imo

The 00's & 90's are over. Women have tinder now

They don't ONS or get boned on first meet anymore

Clubs are used for quick validation wh0ring by women
 

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If you’re a decent amount of success with day game stick with it, I gotta audio book by roosh called Game. He talks about the pros and cons about night game and day game
 

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If you’re a decent amount of success with day game stick with it, I gotta audio book by roosh called Game. He talks about the pros and cons about night game and day game
Yeah I listen to that a few times, I just wanted to make an other avenue for women.
 

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Approaching women was difficult. A lot of times they'd approach me which I was very thankful for. I would try some of the stuff I'd read on sosuave and post about my experiences. The more knowledgeable members would tell me where I fvcked up, explain how I fvcked up, and give me examples of how I shouldn't fvck up. I endured a lot of rejection from women, watched them choose some other guy over me, and I had to learn that continuous practice out in the field was the ONLY way for me to become better with women.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/10-years-at-sosuave.188218/#post-1850224
 

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If you’re a decent amount of success with day game stick with it, I gotta audio book by roosh called Game. He talks about the pros and cons about night game and day game
Actually the one thing that has netted me the most numbers and hotter women is dance game. Not the club, but specific social dances like salsa and bachata(Colombians and Venezuelans are my flavor). It's the only venue were I have seen women can out number guys and you get approached by women to dance.
 

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Actually the one thing that has netted me the most numbers and hotter women is dance game. Not the club, but specific social dances like salsa and bachata(Colombians and Venezuelans are my flavor). It's the only venue were I have seen women can out number guys and you get approached by women to dance QUOTE]

Well there’s your answer, stay with that domain if you’re having decent success. They approach assuming they’ve seen you dance. You’re not getting **** block by her friends. You’re not spending money or drinks and coverage charges. You don’t have to deal with a forest of ****s, cause now the male ratio is higher than females at the club.
 

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Actually the one thing that has netted me the most numbers and hotter women is dance game. Not the club, but specific social dances like salsa and bachata(Colombians and Venezuelans are my flavor). It's the only venue were I have seen women can out number guys and you get approached by women to dance.
Dance game is really my go-to. I definitely want to take more dance classes, but I'm on the road all the time.

It works at bars and club as well. I start dancing like nobody is watching and I got my share of ladies just coming around. I still got a be a bit more assertive in my opinion (I focus a lot on having fun and sometimes miss out on some ladies ) but ladies can't get enough if you are just having fun by yourself
 

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Specifically with night game. I recently found a decent venue with good sex ratios and the women are young good looking and are available. In fact I was approached two times without me really doing anything. Even with that said I still struggle with the process. I have been going to bars and a few clubs for a few months now. I've gotten better with day game with some success. Nothing at night.
I am considering going too a boot camp or finding a coach. Does anyone have suggestions? I have heard a lot about RSD but I dont feel like paying an arm and leg.
http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/

https://therationalmale.com/

Don't wast you're time OLD, tinder and shiet like that
 

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Actually I found a more experienced wing who gets a lot. We go out now EVERY night. This is way more useful. And now that I have a better assessment of my game level I can say that one weekend with RSD would not have changed anything. It's only with this new wing that I can approach and calibrate instantly every night and get better. Gold.

One tip he gave me that I have never heard anything else gave is if you are new, game some escorts. Make a sugar daddy profile on tinder and say you are looking for sugar babys. Take them out, practice, show them off on Instagram, use them to help you approach other girls, and finally get laid.
 
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Okay this is kind of hard to answer in a blog post, but I'll give it a shot. First off night game for me is probably the majority of the places I still meet women. Don't get me wrong online dating has certainly proven to be a good place to meet women. But nothing for me beats the thrill of the hunt. To me it's just always been more exciting than online. Okay first off you have to have your look, if you have girls approaching you that I'm assuming you already have style and you were dressed well. If not check out alpham on YouTube. You don't want to overdress too much, but you do want to be a little bit more well-dressed than the rest of the guys there. Next is your attitude from the second you walk in, every minute you are in the bar or club, you have to act like you are having the time of your life, if you are with friends make sure you guys are all smiling and all social each other, don't just be checking out girls. This Will Make you shine out the other boring dudes. You will be better off having a great conversation with your buddy, while glancing over a girl's, rather than only staring at that. Once you start getting a look here in there then it's okay to move in. Use the 40 second rule, if after 40 seconds you are not getting good vibes from her it's time to move on. Never ever ever, buy a girl a drink unless you have already been talking to her for a significant amount of time. some guys will say don't buy a drink at all, and that's totally up to you, I make good money so buying a drink here and there for a girl I've been talking to for 30 or 45 minutes is not a big deal to me. But don't go buy a bunch of rounds for her and her friends. this is going to sound lame, but if you don't know how to dance take a few dance lessons. Don't worry you don't need to be Fred Astaire or any s*** like that, but make sure you know the basics of dancing. Use Kino escalation, make sure you start touching here and there of course not date rape touching we're touching casual stuff like the shoulder the back of her head you don't little things like that. The mystery method is on YouTube, there are five videos, I would recommend watching those they deal largely in this. There's my go to help you start. This is from 20 years of doing it in the bar myself, and from watching it be done bartending. I did this on text-to-speech cuz I was too lazy to type, so I am sorry in advance if there are some typos
 

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Never ever ever, buy a girl a drink unless you have already been talking to her for a significant amount of time. some guys will say don't buy a drink at all, and that's totally up to you,
Use Kino escalation, make sure you start touching here and there of course not date rape touching we're touching casual stuff like the shoulder the back of her head you don't little things like that.
this and this +1
 
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