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[digitalrat]

Now, there is this girl that has a boyfriend. He's away for pretty much the whole summer. She's flirts and I know that she wants to end the relationship with him and hook up with me.

Now, I want to take her out to lunch and talk about it. I dont want to do this is an AFC way at all. I want to be able to make it like "You're not the only girl on my list, I dont want to waste my time if nothing serious is going to happen"

If you guys can give me ideas and pointers and maybe even lines(which I dont like using) but that will get my point across.

 

[Slickster]

Maybe you should edit your post. "He's flirting with you?"

Anyways wrong approach.

Don't talk about her boyfriend at all. Do what you've been doing if it seems to be working. Have as much fun with her as you can and then suddenly become unavailable. She'll come running to you and when she asks whats going on, tell her you'd rather not get involved with someone who has a boyfriend.

She'll dump him and you're in.

However its a sign of what kind of chick she is by doing this to her boyfriend.

Also....your line about "not the only girl on your list", and "you don't want to get involved if nothing serious is going to happen"

Don't say that. Don't talk about anything getting serious. Have fun keep things light and she won't be able to resist.

 

[digitalrat]

Originally posted by Slickster
Maybe you should edit your post. "He's flirting with you?"

Anyways wrong approach.

Don't talk about her boyfriend at all. Do what you've been doing if it seems to be working. Have as much fun with her as you can and then suddenly become unavailable. She'll come running to you and when she asks whats going on, tell her you'd rather not get involved with someone who has a boyfriend.

She'll dump him and you're in.

However its a sign of what kind of chick she is by doing this to her boyfriend.

Also....your line about "not the only girl on your list", and "you don't want to get involved if nothing serious is going to happen"

Don't say that. Don't talk about anything getting serious. Have fun keep things light and she won't be able to resist.

I'm leaving for a 7 day trip on the 12th, so that should help.

 

[bp1974]

Forget the bf, treat her like you would any other girl you're interested in. Go out with her one evening, have a few drinks and make your move. Do not try to have a conversation with her about it.

bp1974

 

[hardwork]

Originally posted by Slickster
Also....your line about "not the only girl on your list", and "you don't want to get involved if nothing serious is going to happen"

Don't say that. Don't talk about anything getting serious. Have fun keep things light and she won't be able to resist.

If you're going to say that, you may as well say, "Oh, and here's my sack while we're at it, because I'm putting the ball in your court while simultaneously trying to show you that you're not all that important to me. I'm really thinking about this too much, aren't I?"

Anyway, Slickster pretty much summed it up, I just want to hammer home that you really should not use those above-quoted lines.

 

[tamales]

I would also include attorneys... on this one

 

[digitalrat]

Now, when I tell her

"Listen, I like you, but I rather not get involved with a girl that has a boyfriend"

Does it matter if its over the phone or in person? If she calls me do I ask her to come over to my house because she lives like 200 yards away.

Anything that I should include or take out of the that line?