I need her..not good.

[kk2004]

Im starting to need my gurl to make me feel good about myself, like i need her to compliment me and tell me nice things and if she doenst call at least four times a day i get upset. We have been going out for four months now. And i dont know what to do. Im not confident about our realtionship, and im not self assured, i soemtimes need her.

ANd i said, after an argument

me: hey i know sometimes i can be a little bi*cth at times
her: giggles
her:no ur not
me: NO, i think i can be
her: i dont think so. (in a kidding voice)

I dont care how it makes me look, im not ashamed, its just that i get that way after a while. So i was stright up with her.

 

[Black_Italian]

You are a bit*h and the second she finds real man someone stronger than you (wont be hard) she will leave you.

Your to needy and your a bit*h you sound like a girl you dont belong on this site.

Ninja Out

 

[specialed]

Oh boy, I used to be there my friend. What you are doing is you are putting her on a pedestal...having her come first...having her being your WHOLE LIFE. A girlfriend...even when you are married...it's still a PART of your life. Believe me brother, i was where you were a month ago. My emotions and feelings were based on what she said, what she did, how she felt...and we ended up breaking up because she lost interest in me. Do her a favor...but more importantly do YOURSELF a favor, be more active. I know you have at least 1-2 flaws about yourself...go out and try to fix them. Go out and meet new friends...or hang with the ones you already have and you are neglecting.

Seriously this website along with people in other places have really opened my eyes about life in general. And if i would have never of broken up with my ex...i'd still be in that state of mind of being AFC and all that baggage that comes with it.

I know it's gonna be hard...i know this, but try to just not be around her as much as you have been...don't talk to her as much as you have been. Quit being so clingy to her...sure be nice to her but throw in things that will side track her and keep her wondering. IF YOU WANT EXAMPLES i'll be happy to tell you some. She may or not be bored of you right now...who gives a ****, try and fix things now with yourself...you'll become a better person and know for future reference how to handle certain things. If you go out and have a good time with your friends...do things you enjoy doing...you will be more focused on that then some girl you've been dating for only a few months.

BELIEVE ME I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM...i was JUST LIKE THAT weeks ago. I read and read and read and watched some of David DeAngelo's **** (nice to have a visual sometimes) and it changed my life man. I went from being mr. no confidence, worring about everything my girlfriend did, waiting at home not even doing anything waiting on her to come back home so i could talk to her. Man my life priorities were messed up.

I never respond to people on the forums...but because i know exactly how you feel, where you are coming from, etc. I felt like i should share what i've been through. Btw i was dating her for 3 months before we broke up.

AND FOR GOODNESS SAKE SHE IS A PART OF YOUR LIFE NOT YOUR WHOLE LIFE!

Hit me up anytime you want on
AIM: BouncngBnnyfDOOM
if you have any questions

 

[Black_Italian]

Hes a puppet and his Gf is the puppet master.

Ninja Out

 

[Climax]

Shape up or ship out!

Black_Italian: stfu you ninja-ass mother f*cker, give the kid a break! He obviously KNOWS that he is a b!tch, which is WHy he is posting this, to get HELP!:woo: Now help him and stop chasing the b!tches away, kapish? *calls his pirate friends* harrrrrrrrrr harrrrrrrrrr, dont make me come there and own your ass!:trouble:

Ahem...

kk2004: I think it is time for you to turn into a REAL man, before it is too late. Your girl doesnt want a woosie as a boyfriend, she wants a REAL man, a guy that she can be PROUD of, she needs to FEEL your dominance at times, and apologizing out of the blue for some bullsh!t that she doesn’t even think is true? wtf is that? She obviously likes it or doesn’t have a problem with you being a hardass at times, otherwise when you brought it up she would of agreed with you or told you that she thought that you WERE too much of a hardass, but she didn’t.

Remember.... your girl wants a MAN as her BOYfriend, not another woman Fix the problem before its too late, BE A MAN!


Laterz...

 

[frivolousz21]

you can be a sweet guy to her at all times..you dont even need to play games or be mysterious.

just be confident and have your own life and make a part of yours and everything will work itself out.

 

[kk2004]

thx guys

i guess the main thing is making her a part of my life, not my whole life, she is like an added bonus, to me, and i should have my own life to live and she should be ther eto just hare some time with. I can be wsweet too. But i also need to be a man.

I have yelled at her, ive told her to shut up even at times. Ive gotten mad at her many times

 

[quest]

-You can only be happy in a relationship, if you can be happy single.



you my friend, could not be happy single. which is why you've clung to this girl.

i think you're doomed.

throw her on the back foot.

"Listen, things have developed a little bit too fast, how about we cut things down a bit." (see her twice a week, and maybe talk on the phone for 20-30 minutes twice a week). Then you've got HEAPS of time to see your friends, play a sport, work out, educate yourself.

with this, you'll learn to have fun without her.

DO NOT cut time down with her, and sit infront of the TV. DO NOT sit around and smoke weed. doing either of these will just make things worse in your head.

You need to do things that you will enjoy, not do things that will end your boredom. there is a difference.

Do this now, or its as good as over.

And you'll be a wreck.

 

[kk2004]

thx guys

U guys are giving realli good advice. Ur right i need to be happy single too then only can i be happy in a realtionship otherwise the realtionshp becomes requirment. I need to take up things and do things that i enjoy and one thing i love is sarging, I feel so great when i have been good and get a number or get a dance at a club. Im gonna start to read more, and im gonna start exercise more, I just wish i had more friends to hangout with. I only have about tow good friends

 

[kk2004]

guys

Guys im basically bored i guess, its not that i need her so much its just that i need something to do. THat means finding things in life that I enjoy and I love to sightsee and travel and i love to chill out with freinds and i love to read and conquer challenges. Im goign to start doing things i enjoy rather than looking for enjoyment from just once source. I will create enjoyment from myself. Ill try to make new friends along the way. I just have no many friends so its hard to hangout wioth ppl when u dont know many ppl.