"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's a girl that I secretly likes. We're close to each other. The worst is... I am a 'nice guy' and because of that I am 'friendzoned'.

What should I do to make her attracted to me?
Should I build rapport first, or push & pull, something else???

I want step-by-step guide. Please (y)

Thanks in advance.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
 
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Chris80pitt said:
Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
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Yeah, I agree with Chris80pitt and would like to add that the fact that you are a nice guy doesn't mean you cannot do something about your situation. Nice guys have dates too, you know? :)
 
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Chris80pitt said:
Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
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I think it's definitely worth a shot (and the best option), but it hasn't worked for me. One of my closest friends is a girl I'm attracted to and have been trying to get with for a while. She's absolutely aware and I'm always asking her to do stuff together--things that are blatantly dates (e.g. seeing Fifty Shades of Grey on Valentine's Day). Because of the personal situation, this doesn't really prove that this doesn't work. So give it a go and let us know how it goes. Just don't forget to change your attitude from a friend to a lover to kind of get rid of that "nice guy" atmosphere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If I can still add, one way I got out of the friendzone with a girl, was by removing my shoulder. She would come to me, cry about her problems, and I'd just try to work with her and solve them. After that, she would just disappear, and I'd feel satisfied. This was wrong. I ended up removing myself and stopped being her emotional tampon for her to spill out all of her problems on her. I think if you touch her more, and begin using kino, that would definitely help. I also agree with Ruler, when he says to try to make her jealous, by maybe flirting with other girls in her vicinity, to show that you have choice.

Good Luck :)
 
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