"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's a girl that I secretly likes. We're close to each other. The worst is... I am a 'nice guy' and because of that I am 'friendzoned'.

What should I do to make her attracted to me?
Should I build rapport first, or push & pull, something else???

I want step-by-step guide. Please (y)

Thanks in advance.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
 
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Chris80pitt said:
Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
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Yeah, I agree with Chris80pitt and would like to add that the fact that you are a nice guy doesn't mean you cannot do something about your situation. Nice guys have dates too, you know? :)
 
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Chris80pitt said:
Well, if you are close friends try to ask her out. Did you try that? That would be a good step to do. Then, see how things will go and don't tell her right away that you are interested in her.
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I think it's definitely worth a shot (and the best option), but it hasn't worked for me. One of my closest friends is a girl I'm attracted to and have been trying to get with for a while. She's absolutely aware and I'm always asking her to do stuff together--things that are blatantly dates (e.g. seeing Fifty Shades of Grey on Valentine's Day). Because of the personal situation, this doesn't really prove that this doesn't work. So give it a go and let us know how it goes. Just don't forget to change your attitude from a friend to a lover to kind of get rid of that "nice guy" atmosphere.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If I can still add, one way I got out of the friendzone with a girl, was by removing my shoulder. She would come to me, cry about her problems, and I'd just try to work with her and solve them. After that, she would just disappear, and I'd feel satisfied. This was wrong. I ended up removing myself and stopped being her emotional tampon for her to spill out all of her problems on her. I think if you touch her more, and begin using kino, that would definitely help. I also agree with Ruler, when he says to try to make her jealous, by maybe flirting with other girls in her vicinity, to show that you have choice.

Good Luck :)
 
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