"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So in the last day I have a huge fight with my gf. She's pissed I got mad over some minor thing and it just got worse from there. Honestly think this may be the end of the relationship. At one point she shuts her door in my face but then txt that she didnt mean to be rude she just has a job interview that she needs to focus on that she wants to talk just not right now. At first I was like since when did she get to call shots on when we talked about our relationship.

But then it hit me I'm way too invested in this relationship I'm feeling riidiculously sad right now that at this point I have no idea what happens next. But I want to change I'm tired of feeling powerless. The last thing that happened was I txtd her if she was coming to talk before she left...no reply..
I literally hate that I've let myself get to this point. I have a huge test monday and here I am unable to focus on anything...Any advice would be a huge help, I need to change...I'm not happy the way things are
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know where you're coming from. Sorry to hear it my friend. You need to go no contact with her for a bit, allow yourself some time to breath and relax. It's going to suck but if you tough it out she WILL text you again and a better balance of power (in your favor) will be established.
 
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Yea I understand that. It was just one of those fights over something small that just escalated because neither side was going to give. Oh well. We'll see what happens in the next week
 
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So I'm bumping this. Long story short she said on two different occasions she wanted to talk. But never txtd me back both times we was supposed to meet up. So I just txtd her that it was over.

At this point idk what to do I dont know where to start I guess I feel helpless we'd been together for 2 years so I don't really know what to do with myself in my free time but workout. I went ahead and deleted her number and all her pictures off my phone so I guess thats a start
 
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