"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So in the last day I have a huge fight with my gf. She's pissed I got mad over some minor thing and it just got worse from there. Honestly think this may be the end of the relationship. At one point she shuts her door in my face but then txt that she didnt mean to be rude she just has a job interview that she needs to focus on that she wants to talk just not right now. At first I was like since when did she get to call shots on when we talked about our relationship.

But then it hit me I'm way too invested in this relationship I'm feeling riidiculously sad right now that at this point I have no idea what happens next. But I want to change I'm tired of feeling powerless. The last thing that happened was I txtd her if she was coming to talk before she left...no reply..
I literally hate that I've let myself get to this point. I have a huge test monday and here I am unable to focus on anything...Any advice would be a huge help, I need to change...I'm not happy the way things are
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know where you're coming from. Sorry to hear it my friend. You need to go no contact with her for a bit, allow yourself some time to breath and relax. It's going to suck but if you tough it out she WILL text you again and a better balance of power (in your favor) will be established.
 
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Yea I understand that. It was just one of those fights over something small that just escalated because neither side was going to give. Oh well. We'll see what happens in the next week
 
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So I'm bumping this. Long story short she said on two different occasions she wanted to talk. But never txtd me back both times we was supposed to meet up. So I just txtd her that it was over.

At this point idk what to do I dont know where to start I guess I feel helpless we'd been together for 2 years so I don't really know what to do with myself in my free time but workout. I went ahead and deleted her number and all her pictures off my phone so I guess thats a start
 
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