im 16 and i went to a hookah cafe with 2 cousins (girls) and my brother. I saw a girl there and she's beautiful, i give her 8-9/10. my cousins already knew her and said she's 15 and is a model. as you can guess she has many many guys that fall for her all the time. Once maybe Twice we made eye contact in the cafe, but she quickly looked away. My cousins said they would be glad to introduce me, but i want to be ready before for we meet. I also know her Facebook so should i meet her in person or send her a message on Facebook? thanks in advance.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
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In person only. Don't do the Facebook thing until you've been introduced, otherwise you will be another face among dozens.
The eye contact thing does not mean anything. Meet her soon without much or any 'preparation'. You're increasing your expectations too much and this will make you say and do stupid things when you meet her. Look at it this way: you're 16 and you will meet hundreds of prettier girls in your lifetime. She is nothing more than practice.
If she's a model she is already conditioned to male attention. Stand out from the rest by acting cool and collected by ACTUALLY being cool and collected by not over-thinking this. Put her in the back burner. Again, do not 'prepare' to meet her.
On the other hand, the cool thing about her being 15 is that there's a small possibility that she might have not developed a *****y attitude yet and might have not yet learned to disqualify men at first sight.
Good luck!
The eye contact thing does not mean anything. Meet her soon without much or any 'preparation'. You're increasing your expectations too much and this will make you say and do stupid things when you meet her. Look at it this way: you're 16 and you will meet hundreds of prettier girls in your lifetime. She is nothing more than practice.
If she's a model she is already conditioned to male attention. Stand out from the rest by acting cool and collected by ACTUALLY being cool and collected by not over-thinking this. Put her in the back burner. Again, do not 'prepare' to meet her.
On the other hand, the cool thing about her being 15 is that there's a small possibility that she might have not developed a *****y attitude yet and might have not yet learned to disqualify men at first sight.
Good luck!