im 16 and i went to a hookah cafe with 2 cousins (girls) and my brother. I saw a girl there and she's beautiful, i give her 8-9/10. my cousins already knew her and said she's 15 and is a model. as you can guess she has many many guys that fall for her all the time. Once maybe Twice we made eye contact in the cafe, but she quickly looked away. My cousins said they would be glad to introduce me, but i want to be ready before for we meet. I also know her Facebook so should i meet her in person or send her a message on Facebook? thanks in advance.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In person only. Don't do the Facebook thing until you've been introduced, otherwise you will be another face among dozens.
The eye contact thing does not mean anything. Meet her soon without much or any 'preparation'. You're increasing your expectations too much and this will make you say and do stupid things when you meet her. Look at it this way: you're 16 and you will meet hundreds of prettier girls in your lifetime. She is nothing more than practice.
If she's a model she is already conditioned to male attention. Stand out from the rest by acting cool and collected by ACTUALLY being cool and collected by not over-thinking this. Put her in the back burner. Again, do not 'prepare' to meet her.
On the other hand, the cool thing about her being 15 is that there's a small possibility that she might have not developed a *****y attitude yet and might have not yet learned to disqualify men at first sight.
Good luck!
The eye contact thing does not mean anything. Meet her soon without much or any 'preparation'. You're increasing your expectations too much and this will make you say and do stupid things when you meet her. Look at it this way: you're 16 and you will meet hundreds of prettier girls in your lifetime. She is nothing more than practice.
If she's a model she is already conditioned to male attention. Stand out from the rest by acting cool and collected by ACTUALLY being cool and collected by not over-thinking this. Put her in the back burner. Again, do not 'prepare' to meet her.
On the other hand, the cool thing about her being 15 is that there's a small possibility that she might have not developed a *****y attitude yet and might have not yet learned to disqualify men at first sight.
Good luck!