"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ

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Hi,

I live in a small college town in bumfvck Iowa. Everybody pretty much knows everybody.

The thing is there is a very limited supply of hot women. There is lots of competition and women have pretty much all the power which pisses me off.
Most of them also of course have boyfriends which they are totally in love with and usually end up marrying. All the other guys here start dating down and date only fat/ugly chicks. I don't wanna do that though.

The thing is if I get rejected by a chick I like, word spreads around and my chances of hooking up with a hot chick decreases dramatically.

Any ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Take your time.

Don't hoe chase. Don't run up on a girl just because she's hot.

Wait for choosing signals or IOI before approaching.

Make friends.

Create a social circle or join one, join groups.

Be patient. Don't be a in a rush.

See if there are other towns nearby you can go practice in.
 
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Warrior74 said:
Take your time.

Don't hoe chase. Don't run up on a girl just because she's hot.

Wait for choosing signals or IOI before approaching.

Make friends.

Create a social circle or join one, join groups.

Be patient. Don't be a in a rush.

See if there are other towns nearby you can go practice in.
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That actually makes a lot of sense. Thanks bro!
 
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Yea, isn't there any big cities nearby that u could go to?

But Warrior, what if most of the girls don't give him IOIs before approaching? Gonna not go up to her? If he's saying that not that many girls, that can be limiting...is it not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Yea, isn't there any big cities nearby that u could go to?

But Warrior, what if most of the girls don't give him IOIs before approaching? Gonna not go up to her? If he's saying that not that many girls, that can be limiting...is it not?
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Yah. of course it is. Tuff. Because its such a small place you don't want to be the guy running up in the face of the 12 hot girls there. talk about ruining your rep. thats why I said to be patient. he's obviously gonna be there a while. He has to use this time to learn to control himself. Sucks for him. Cry me a river. he's gotta man up and handle his ****. And believe me. they will notice that hes a man who can control himself. He might find himself in the secret society if hes friendly and sociable but not desperate.
 
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i live in l.a. so i dont run into this problem but you can always reopen girls

there are quita few girls that ive hit on who were not super interested but i run into at bars/clubs

one night I walked up to a girl talking with this guy and start making out with her (not a sigle word spoken) in front of tons of people at a crowded bar and instantly girls (that i had oppened before as well as new ones) started coming up to me left and right

I showed value and they responded despite the fact I had made less than effective attempts in the past
 
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