"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need help with convos

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mike_hockey

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I was talking to a hb8 that my buddy's gf introduced me to today during lunch for about half an hour. things went okay and i ended up asking her to go to the movies with me and she sad yes. the problem was that the conversation kept dying. i was asking general questions like what classes u have, do u like your teachers, the people in your classes etc etc, and when we were talking things went well and she seemed into me but there were kind of awkward gaps between the questions that i was asking her. she wasnt really giving me anything else to pick up on and ask her about. do i just need more experience talking to girls or is there something i can start doing to improve my conversation skills?

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mike
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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