"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i need help wit this girl from internet

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ok, like since a year ago i met this girl online and ive talked to her this whole time, ok well she once told me shes been dreamin about me and that she wished she could be wit me and stuff. ok so this last christmas she went to mexico and we didnt talked for like 2 weeks, ok so after she came back she told me she liked me and stuff and she was dreamin about me the whole time we didnt talked. ok so school started and she had a project for science fair, she made it to regionals and well since she goes to other school and i go to another, and since she made it to regionals, she went and she met this guy from my school. since then is since our problems started. we used to stay up to like 3am talkin and after she met him, they started talkin for hours on the phone and for every since day. ok so he stoped talkin to her, i think since she told him about me and he found out it was me. i suppose he got scarced of me or something, ok well they stoped talkin but since then i stoped trustin her cause she told him that she loved him and everything. and she also tells me that she calls this other guy from her school mi amor and chulo, which means something like honey and stuff like that. ok so i really stop trustin her and i just snap and startin talkin **** to her! and now shes sayin she doesnt want to talk to me anymore. but i kind of reglect doin that and i want to know some way to her so she can like me again! and now she was sayin that i needed to trust her, but the hell could i trust her when she tells me that stuff about how she calls the guy from her school and stuff. ok so all i need to know if how can i say im sorry and how can i make her like me again???:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by neonlimited
have you even met this girl LOL

well accually ive only seen her, and the part i saw the most her ass lol but i like her a lot, and i always try to tell her when we can go out and shes always doin something
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget her, you blew your chance with her, and shes not even worth it man, a girl ffrom the internet? You gotta be kidding me. Use the stuff on this site and go and meet real girls, which are probably way better than this girl would have been,
 

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Originally posted by A7Xx
Forget her, you blew your chance with her, and shes not even worth it man, a girl ffrom the internet? You gotta be kidding me. Use the stuff on this site and go and meet real girls, which are probably way better than this girl would have been,

yea im tryin but i got way too obsessed wit her. and i dont even know y, shes not the cutest person on earth or anything, and im still way too obsessed wit her!
 

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......that's what happens when you talk to only ONE girl..... what's her s/n by the way she might probably come to miami for one of her regionals
 

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Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
......that's what happens when you talk to only ONE girl..... what's her s/n by the way she might probably come to miami for one of her regionals
hell no, i aint givin u ****!
 

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DemonXIII

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LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

DemonXIII

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

DemonXIII

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LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

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wow a penta-post, that's a new one...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Vincent
wow a penta-post, that's a new one...
ya dude, quit spamming to raise your post count, or you will be banned

oh, sorry vincent. I've overstepped my bounds :eek:
 
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