"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i need help wit this girl from internet

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ok, like since a year ago i met this girl online and ive talked to her this whole time, ok well she once told me shes been dreamin about me and that she wished she could be wit me and stuff. ok so this last christmas she went to mexico and we didnt talked for like 2 weeks, ok so after she came back she told me she liked me and stuff and she was dreamin about me the whole time we didnt talked. ok so school started and she had a project for science fair, she made it to regionals and well since she goes to other school and i go to another, and since she made it to regionals, she went and she met this guy from my school. since then is since our problems started. we used to stay up to like 3am talkin and after she met him, they started talkin for hours on the phone and for every since day. ok so he stoped talkin to her, i think since she told him about me and he found out it was me. i suppose he got scarced of me or something, ok well they stoped talkin but since then i stoped trustin her cause she told him that she loved him and everything. and she also tells me that she calls this other guy from her school mi amor and chulo, which means something like honey and stuff like that. ok so i really stop trustin her and i just snap and startin talkin **** to her! and now shes sayin she doesnt want to talk to me anymore. but i kind of reglect doin that and i want to know some way to her so she can like me again! and now she was sayin that i needed to trust her, but the hell could i trust her when she tells me that stuff about how she calls the guy from her school and stuff. ok so all i need to know if how can i say im sorry and how can i make her like me again???:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by neonlimited
have you even met this girl LOL

well accually ive only seen her, and the part i saw the most her ass lol but i like her a lot, and i always try to tell her when we can go out and shes always doin something
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Forget her, you blew your chance with her, and shes not even worth it man, a girl ffrom the internet? You gotta be kidding me. Use the stuff on this site and go and meet real girls, which are probably way better than this girl would have been,
 

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Originally posted by A7Xx
Forget her, you blew your chance with her, and shes not even worth it man, a girl ffrom the internet? You gotta be kidding me. Use the stuff on this site and go and meet real girls, which are probably way better than this girl would have been,

yea im tryin but i got way too obsessed wit her. and i dont even know y, shes not the cutest person on earth or anything, and im still way too obsessed wit her!
 

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......that's what happens when you talk to only ONE girl..... what's her s/n by the way she might probably come to miami for one of her regionals
 

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Originally posted by NotaGoatLover
......that's what happens when you talk to only ONE girl..... what's her s/n by the way she might probably come to miami for one of her regionals
hell no, i aint givin u ****!
 

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DemonXIII

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LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

DemonXIII

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

DemonXIII

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LOL this fool...

LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

DemonXIII

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LMAO damn homie u trippin.........

Stop the net thing man wtf? meet some real chicks and then if u need help we got you...

**** outta here
 

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wow a penta-post, that's a new one...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Vincent
wow a penta-post, that's a new one...
ya dude, quit spamming to raise your post count, or you will be banned

oh, sorry vincent. I've overstepped my bounds :eek:
 
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