"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need help on this one chick from my facebook

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along with learning how to pick up chicks I dont know..heres another problem I have

About 2 or 3 weeks ago I went to the park to go smoke some weed with some friends and when we got there I noticed that there was two girls with my friends and they weren't getting intimate with them but since they dont get laid I didnt try to make a great impression on them but I did because i decided beforehand to wear a cowboy hat and some shades but I didnt know they were gonna be there so it was automatic peacocking....anyways. They took some pictures of me and wanted to be my friend on facebook. cool. and so while I was wearing shades I didnt really see what these girls looked like but I know they were cute, particularly this one brunette. from skimming through a few of her pics, she's definately crazy as hell but she's sexy.

Well, we only messaged each other a few times one night and thats about it. before i realized she was hot..but now that I know I've been hoping this girl would hang out with my friends so i can get with her. In fact my friends think we'd be compatible. ha,,she's really hot but since Ive been waiting and to no avail I need to make a move. i'm going to message her about this but how can I go about private messaging a girl showing interest but without coming across as a weirdo? should I get her AIM or number? her AIM is displayed on her profile but I'm not sure about IMing her without asking her first..what do you think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's wrong with popping up as a surprise on AIM? You don't need permission to do these kind of things, especially from a girl. You need to get that thought out of your head.

Just send a message on AIM when she's online. On myspace it tells you when your friends are online, so there you go. All you have to say is something like "Hey you, remember that sexy cowboy from the park on whatever day? Its me, *name*! What's up?". Bam, you've gotten her into a totally normal convo. And from then on, you can talk to her on AIM whenever, just remember to say something about you adding her sn, and tell her to do the same for you. Simple stuff man.
 
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well one night I was gonna talk to her, and I added her name on my sn list but I chickened out.... lol..sorry for being such a jackass. I acknowlege it.

She's on right now(AIM). So you think I should just IM her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nothing's wrong with AIMing a person that is on your friends list when it has their screenname right there :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alright so this AIM conversation is starting to get kinda dull...she gives one, two or three word answers and thats pissing me off. Should I just stop talking to her?
 
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Bleh, yea sometimes AIM convos can get like that, that's why girls I'm trying to get with I contact mainly in person and of course, gotta get the number, sure I say cut it off the convo and remember to get the number b4 you go
 
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