"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need help. I am become a validation addict!

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BigOlePappy

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Ok, so I can pick up 8/10 girl's digits.
Sex is no longer a big deal anymore.
I have no fear of rejection.

I have improved myself greatly, BUT now i'm addicted. I have to have validation from women every single day. If I don't get it I feel real low.
I don't really know how to explain this... anyone else get the gist of what I am talking about?

Its like my self worth is becoming directly proportional to my success with women each day. Its not even the sex I'm addicted to. WTF!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yo bro, i feel like that sometimes, its cool man. just hang out wit ur bros and get ur mind off it
 
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I think you just need to lay low for awhile and focus your attention elsewhere, hobbies/career/friends/etc.
 
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BigOlePappy

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It sounds like a silly problem, but it is really starting to drive me crazy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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