“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I need help guys

oscarxp25

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Girl flaked out on me last night, did not call me when I was at a party with friends, where she was suppose to meet me. Should I call her on it because some think it is bad to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs

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Back rotation. Don't even mention it, and if you were going to, I tend to use this line:
"So, how awesome is your excuse?"
 

CORVETTE06

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forget her. shes not worth ur time. dont bother with her anymore, but dont be a jerk towards her.

*if u happen to seee her in person, be like 'hey what happened the other night'
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So pimp its scary

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So how many more numbers did you get at this party cause she wasn't there??

Docs has a good response too, when a girl flakes I tend to simply drop her number from the list
 

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Docs is more forgiving of disrespectful behavior than most of the guys on this forum. I haven't yet decided whether or not his strategy is wise, though.
 

Snow Plowman

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It's just a flake if you were a really cool guy who was having fun partying and talking to other women.

Why would you care if she flakes?

You never really know which girl's will flake and why they flake. The thing about flaking is to cover all your bases before you actually close to lower your flake rate.

Are you doing qualification? (Very Important)
Are you guys vibing well?
Are you grounding your identity? (Letting her know who you are as a person)

These things alone can lower your flake rate. But overall you shouldn't even next so quick because you don't know what happens. I've kept girls #s for months and called them later on and they don't even remember me, but after getting them laughing and talking more and more they come out.

Basically think of it as if a high value guy was to telling a girl to meet up and she flakes. Would he even care? Most likely no cause he is a cool guy and has a life, just cause a girl flaked he isn't going to just next her so quick.
 
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