"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need help finding solutions to PE

SpikeySpruce

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So I've always delt with what I would call "mild" PE. Sometimes it was a real problem, like when I would *** in less than 30 seconds, or sometimes i could last 2-5 minutes. Other times it was less of a problem and I could last 5-10 minutes. But I was always ****ing worried about it even when it wasnt too bad. Now I feel like I've actually overcome it and I'm really really happy with my performance. That being said, I hope to one day help men overcome this problem without a pill or a damn numbing cream( the point is to enjoy sex). I know that it can be done, but I also know that everyone is different and that my experience is not the same as yours, so I need help getting to the bottom of this. Here's a couple of questions to start but feel free to share whatever you think is relavent.

1. As a man with PE what is the biggest challenge that you faced in overcoming PE, what have you tried and what were the results?

2. What would you consider to be your ideal results, or in your mind what would be the opposite of PE(I guess)?

Thanks in advance to anyone who wants to share and contribute to this cause! You rock
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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