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I don't know how to start this post cause i know its my fault now I'm suffering the actions of my doing (One of those now you have made your bed ) .....etc
The Low down. I was dating this girl things went south alot of drama,fights some physical and things where bad so i came here for advice and i found the N.C challenge i just read The thread right now and realized something i didn't completely concentrate especially on this part :
you must be certain that you can stay strong and stick to it. NC isn’t a decision that should be reversed until you are completely healed. If you keep implementing NC and then breaking it, it sends a message to your ex that you are needy and haven’t got the strength or the conviction to follow through on your commitments. Using NC without being genuinely committed to it is a recipe for disaster – you will break it and look weak. And you if you try to use NC again, your ex will not be too bothered….because “You said that last time”.
Now she is telling me straight she doesn't want to be with me any more oh by the way I have a kid with this girl and i lost my job about a year ago so things have been going down stream for me(lots of bad luck I think) like I lost my house my car and all that and when i get a new job either i get fired or my employer changes he's mind after they have hired me due to a criminal conviction (for graffiti) but I have been on this site for years and i know you can get any girl whether you have material or not back to the story now
grapevine has it that there is a guy asking her out well they where dating and she broke up with the guy cause she still loves me now here is the tricky part she keeps telling me she doesn't love me but she keeps telling her friends she does
I have initiated the NC challenge twice and failed (well the 1st time it worked cause i went for two months the 2nd time was 3 weeks )and I really want to be around my daughter more often and you know like call to ask about her but she wont take my calls and ( I know what your going to say)
well i think about two weeks ago we had a fight but it seemed like premeditated :she attacked me physically in the hope ill attack her and i didn't @ 1st than she kept pushing and pushing and
pushing than i head budded her(forehead) than she started bleeding through the nose she than took pictures and sent them to my whole family and hers she looks like she been trying to discredit me alot i don't get it d'j if i have worked so hard to make this work and Ii have gave this my all what am i doing wrong here I've even given up fighting i just want my family back. Right now I'm thinking maybe that dude is sticking a cucumber in her hence she acting like this i don't know i really need advice how to win this battle
This is going to torment me for a really long time if I loose to a Afc
I don't know how to start this post cause i know its my fault now I'm suffering the actions of my doing (One of those now you have made your bed ) .....etc
The Low down. I was dating this girl things went south alot of drama,fights some physical and things where bad so i came here for advice and i found the N.C challenge i just read The thread right now and realized something i didn't completely concentrate especially on this part :
you must be certain that you can stay strong and stick to it. NC isn’t a decision that should be reversed until you are completely healed. If you keep implementing NC and then breaking it, it sends a message to your ex that you are needy and haven’t got the strength or the conviction to follow through on your commitments. Using NC without being genuinely committed to it is a recipe for disaster – you will break it and look weak. And you if you try to use NC again, your ex will not be too bothered….because “You said that last time”.
Now she is telling me straight she doesn't want to be with me any more oh by the way I have a kid with this girl and i lost my job about a year ago so things have been going down stream for me(lots of bad luck I think) like I lost my house my car and all that and when i get a new job either i get fired or my employer changes he's mind after they have hired me due to a criminal conviction (for graffiti) but I have been on this site for years and i know you can get any girl whether you have material or not back to the story now
grapevine has it that there is a guy asking her out well they where dating and she broke up with the guy cause she still loves me now here is the tricky part she keeps telling me she doesn't love me but she keeps telling her friends she does
I have initiated the NC challenge twice and failed (well the 1st time it worked cause i went for two months the 2nd time was 3 weeks )and I really want to be around my daughter more often and you know like call to ask about her but she wont take my calls and ( I know what your going to say)
well i think about two weeks ago we had a fight but it seemed like premeditated :she attacked me physically in the hope ill attack her and i didn't @ 1st than she kept pushing and pushing and
pushing than i head budded her(forehead) than she started bleeding through the nose she than took pictures and sent them to my whole family and hers she looks like she been trying to discredit me alot i don't get it d'j if i have worked so hard to make this work and Ii have gave this my all what am i doing wrong here I've even given up fighting i just want my family back. Right now I'm thinking maybe that dude is sticking a cucumber in her hence she acting like this i don't know i really need advice how to win this battle
This is going to torment me for a really long time if I loose to a Afc
