"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need help before 600pm

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Well the thing is I would like to have a girlfriend! The night we went out with her sister a funny thing happened! We show up at the bar, her sister hb9 shows up without a date. We click instantly. Having fun, just talking. I get up to go to the restroom and comeback, and they moved to a larger table. They call me over and I sit. "You don't mind if a couple more people show up do you?" I replied no. Next thing you know All of her family and friends show up including her parents. I bet there was at least 15 people there. So I DHV'd. Ignored the target and chatted up her family and friends. It played out perfectly. But now I am struggling. Missing her ya know....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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