I'm in a slightly different yet similar situation. I met this Peruvian chick about 2 weeks ago. Through friends. I saw her twice with friends. Both times she flirted with me big time (and of course I flirted back). Got her number. Got her a few times on the phone. We're arranging a date. High signs of interest from her. i meet another girl this past weekend. We flirted. I call. She seems a little distant when i call today. She was in the middle of something (plus my mood wasn't the best, i was drowsy when I called).
I'll continue moving forward with both......and see what happens.
In the meantime, one thing I've noticed is lots of times it's a matter of persistence and indifference. The worst mindset to have is that an outcome will make or break you. (I've been there and am working on that myself). So....my plan for this situation is to not only see what happens with both, but keep practicing,experimenting, and talking with women. Going for numbers/dates whenever the opportunity comes up. This will help me completely get rid of neediness while at the same time having fun........ I'd actually reccomend to NEVER STOP PRACTICING. Even if you find yourself eventually in a long-term relationship with a great woman. I have decided that even if i get into a LTR with some wonderful girl, that doesn't stop me from flirting and chatting up and teasing women, just to keep my game sharp and completely eradicate neediness. Knowing you can take or leave any woman can add TONS of power to any relationship and that's where I hope to be in the near future. It takes persistence and effort and unlearning lots of crap, but it's worth it.
