"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need examples of acting like a jerk.

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Re: Too many phone numbers, too little time.

flashdance
What I dont understand is... how do you get all these numbers in the first place if you never act interested and dont care?
Women find me charming. That has always been true. But I've studied the DJ Bible and Doc Love articles etc.

I learned to stop being shy and just talk to her, even if it is just any kind of sh!t. If you are self-confident, she will respond.

I knew this in the back of my head before, even when I was AFC, but now I know more clearly that women are turned on by self-confidence.

I learned to ask for the phone number.

I learned that by focusing on my own life and staying busy, I am more attractive to women.

If I knew at 24 what I now know about women! About myself!
If I could be your age again, my life would be much different.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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