"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gizmowillis

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Ok Im going to get straight to it theirs a chick I like and where both in the same year level(11) and have a class together. She's extremley sexy 11/10 looks like a Kim kardashian with a little tan, shez eastern European and has the sexy accent and has like basically everyone on her but for some stupid reason no one talks to her except a kid that's I know that follows her everywhere n ****. I belive I'more attractive than him ( i've been told Ima 8 - 8.5 by some girl) in a sense I know I have a chance with her. The guy that talks to her I know FOR SURE has stuck himself in the 'friend zone ' I need to talk advantage of his flaws and get this girl i've spoken to her like 2wice this year and I think that she thinks I don't pay much attention to her. She dosent have much friends( very quite ) except that guy and like 2 other girls
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So..... go up and talk to her. I'm not really sure what your asking. There are plenty of tips on this site.... but for a lot of different things.

If you want specific tips then your gonna have to ask specifically what you need tips on. In regards to talking to her... just say hi, tell her your name and ask her something about herself. You said she's eastern European, so ask her where she's from and if she gets to visit there very often. Now your in conversation - hardest part done.
 
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FlyGuyM

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lol...sounds like all you need to do is give her attention & she'll be yours.. talk to her, show your interested, but do not come off as a fiend (DONT be to available) Make her like you so much that she tells you she missed you just because you didnt text her for the past 2 or 3 days.
 
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