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I need all the tips I can get

Gizmowillis

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Ok Im going to get straight to it theirs a chick I like and where both in the same year level(11) and have a class together. She's extremley sexy 11/10 looks like a Kim kardashian with a little tan, shez eastern European and has the sexy accent and has like basically everyone on her but for some stupid reason no one talks to her except a kid that's I know that follows her everywhere n ****. I belive I'more attractive than him ( i've been told Ima 8 - 8.5 by some girl) in a sense I know I have a chance with her. The guy that talks to her I know FOR SURE has stuck himself in the 'friend zone ' I need to talk advantage of his flaws and get this girl i've spoken to her like 2wice this year and I think that she thinks I don't pay much attention to her. She dosent have much friends( very quite ) except that guy and like 2 other girls
 

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Plec07

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So..... go up and talk to her. I'm not really sure what your asking. There are plenty of tips on this site.... but for a lot of different things.

If you want specific tips then your gonna have to ask specifically what you need tips on. In regards to talking to her... just say hi, tell her your name and ask her something about herself. You said she's eastern European, so ask her where she's from and if she gets to visit there very often. Now your in conversation - hardest part done.
 

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lol...sounds like all you need to do is give her attention & she'll be yours.. talk to her, show your interested, but do not come off as a fiend (DONT be to available) Make her like you so much that she tells you she missed you just because you didnt text her for the past 2 or 3 days.
 
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