"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Need Advice

rockman

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Okay so theres this girl at my work that likes me alot, and I told her a few days ago that we should hang out sometime during the week (like monday or tuesday) cuz we both have our spring breaks.

Im thinking of having her over my house and we just watch a movie in my basement, and hopefully i will hookup with her. Is this a good idea for a date? Im not to enthusiastic about going out to a movie cuz that just seems too corny for me and id rather hookup with her while laying down on the couch in my basement.

I've already decided that im going to tell my parents the whole plan the day before I ask her to come over, but how should I kindly go about telling my parents to leave us alone in the basement and not walk in on us? Also, I have two younger brothers, so it would be even worse for them to walk in. I was thinking I ask my parents if they could take my little bros out to dinner for the night, but can anyone else give me some more options on what to say to them?

Thanks
 

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Bible_Belt

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Focus more on the girl's interest in you than on the specific circumstances of the date; if that interest is high enough, she will be calling you every time her parents leave her alone. If you try too hard to set up the perfect hook-up date, it can come off as transparent and backfire.
 
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