"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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-*- I Need Advice On This Workout Plan -*-

Charm&Style

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Day #1: Monday

Pull-up: 10 x 3 weighted
Bench Press: 10 x 3
Squat: 3 x 8
Hamstring Curl: 3 x 6
Calf/Biceps/Triceps exercises: 1 set each 6-10 reps
Ab exercise: anything goes

Day #2: Wednesday

Deadlift: 10 x 3
Rack Pull: 3 x 3-5
Flyes: 3 x 8
Overhead Press: 10 x 3 standing, cleaned from floor
Calf/Biceps/Triceps exercises: 1 set each 6-10 reps
Ab exercise: anything goes, but different than previous session

Day #3: Friday

Dips: 10 x 3
Rows: 10 x 3
Lateral Raises: 3 x 8
Lunge variations: 3 x 6-8
Calf/Biceps/Triceps exercises: 1 set each 6-10 reps
Ab exercise: anything goes, but different than previous session

I'll blast through the concentric (lifting) portion of each lift and control the negative. The only thing I'll do to make it fat-loss specific is take shorter rest periods.

Note that there are usually two primary lifts with some secondary exercises added in with fewer sets. Note that these rotate. Note that although I'm hitting chest three times a week (as well as most other muscle groups), the exercise is different each day and usually focuses on a different muscle function. Note that the program revolves around big, compound exercises with little focus on smaller muscle groups like arms and calves.


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I got this workout off the internet, seems pretty good to me.

Is it goooood ??

(**Again my goal is losing that weight i gained in a month and obtaining lean muscle mass. Im not bulking. Im in the process of becoming chizzled)

And, for instance when it says:


Pull-up: 10 x 3 weighted
Does that mean 10 sets of 3 reps..??

:nervous:


tanx


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Far too much work for the average guy, especially if you're after fat loss (this routine may well become catabolic).

Why don't you just stick with the routine that built the muscle you have currently?
 

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its weird bro, the routine i used to have built me muscle but not that much strength.

Anyways war, i actually started that V-Diet lol. I know, I know...its prbly the retardest thing ive done, but i like to experimentate. :nervous:

So basicly im getting a crap load of protein in my body. And its only a 3-day workout opposed to my 5 day workouts.

As for too much work, im pretty sure i can handle this. My previous workouts that built me up consisted of about 6 sets of 8 workouts if you get my flow haha.

I was just confused on which figure is the reps posted and which figure is the sets.

so 10 x 3 is 10 sets of 3 reps or 3 sets of 10 reps :confused:
 

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volume training = 'mass' but not much strength. or fluff. an extended pump, hence muscle 'gains' without strength gains.

do this routine if you want, but I wouldn't recommend it.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
volume training = 'mass' but not much strength. or fluff. an extended pump, hence muscle 'gains' without strength gains.

do this routine if you want, but I wouldn't recommend it.

its really gonna wear me out that bad huh ?? :nervous:

im gonna give it a shot for the first week and see how things go.

If it does eff me up then ill hit u up for some advice on volume training.


Tanx again war, appreciate your kindness in helping.



peace


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Charm&Style said:
its really gonna wear me out that bad huh ?? :nervous:

im gonna give it a shot for the first week and see how things go.

If it does eff me up then ill hit u up for some advice on volume training.


Tanx again war, appreciate your kindness in helping.



peace


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noooooo.. I wasn't recommending volume training. just saying that volume training makes you bigger without making you stronger.

when you try out a routine, try it out for 3 months before making a decision on it. give it a chance to work from all angles.

find a routine you believe will work and hammer away at it for 10-12 weeks, then make a decision whether to stick with it or not.
 

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10x3 workouts are great (i'm actually on one now) if done correctly.

I don't like the way this one is setup, if your going to do a 10x3 you need to alter the frequency of the 10x3 sets.

What worries me is some of the comments you've made that show your lack of knowledge of some basic concepts which are important for you to succeed.

In your situation i would stay away from 10x3 for now because it doesn't look like u know what ur doing. Get on a basic modified WSB routine, normal weightlifting diet with carb cut offs, morning cardio, enough water, etc.
 

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EFFORT said:
10x3 workouts are great (i'm actually on one now) if done correctly.

I don't like the way this one is setup, if your going to do a 10x3 you need to alter the frequency of the 10x3 sets.

What worries me is some of the comments you've made that show your lack of knowledge of some basic concepts which are important for you to succeed.

In your situation i would stay away from 10x3 for now because it doesn't look like u know what ur doing. Get on a basic modified WSB routine, normal weightlifting diet with carb cut offs, morning cardio, enough water, etc.

so 10x3 excersizes are 10 reps x 3 sets....right??
 
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