anyway, i've been talking to this HB9 for almost 2 years now, in the start i was an AFC with her. But anyway, im also currently talking to an HB7 whom i'm leaving alone for a while based on everybody's advice in this forum. I'm trying to work on this girl.
ANyway, when i was an AFC, this girl would always diss me and not give me the time of day. Now that i read this forum, i totally reversed everything on her. Like today i talked to her and she started telling me things about her life about how many boyfriend's she's had and how she's talking to this dude right now, etc etc, things she would never tell me when i was an AFC. She also asked me if i ever cheated on my gf. I said yeah, one time. Then i told her that at this point there's no one out there that's worth it for me to be cheating on my gf with presently (basically qualifying her). I even tried to KINO her, by poking her waist saying "damn girl you have love handles, haven't seen you for a while". ANd then after the second poke, she would say "hey scoot back buddy". Or if i try to get close to her, she's telling me to stay away. BUt she says this stuff with a smile.
She also told me that she got all my texts and that's she's been busy and she was sorry she hasn't responded. I kept my cool and said "its all good, no worries, i understand" (basically not displaying any signs of neediness)
Anyway, I'm not gonna keep rambling on and on what happened but i kicked it in her office for almost 2.5 hours just talking. THen i brought up to her that i wanted to watch that public enemies movie which is coming out on July 1
and asked her if she wanted to come. She said "i dont go to the movies with guys that have girlfriends" with a smile on her face...so the way she said it, i took it as a positive. I told her, "that's cool, its all good". I also have these sun glasses that i bought that' she's jocking and she said she liked them and if she can borrow them, i told her NO (and i guess the answer surprised her, i was basically qualifying her at that point). Then i told her in a few months, my office will be by her job. She usually takes lunch at 3 pm since she comes in late. Then she tells me that when im down by her job, she wants to pick me up and go to lunch with me. I said "ya, thats' cool but I take lunch at 12 pm". and then she also said "also i want to visit you in your office". then i told her, "NO, you don't have to, but if you insist, then that's up to you". And she tells me "Well there's days where I come in early you know and we can eat out at 12 pm". I basically qualified her at that point. SO now i reversed her frame of mind about me on her. Everytime i see her, i always hug and kiss her cheek.
I wanna bone this girl so bad, an HB9, i wanna hear it from the DJs, how shall I proceed?
ANyway, when i was an AFC, this girl would always diss me and not give me the time of day. Now that i read this forum, i totally reversed everything on her. Like today i talked to her and she started telling me things about her life about how many boyfriend's she's had and how she's talking to this dude right now, etc etc, things she would never tell me when i was an AFC. She also asked me if i ever cheated on my gf. I said yeah, one time. Then i told her that at this point there's no one out there that's worth it for me to be cheating on my gf with presently (basically qualifying her). I even tried to KINO her, by poking her waist saying "damn girl you have love handles, haven't seen you for a while". ANd then after the second poke, she would say "hey scoot back buddy". Or if i try to get close to her, she's telling me to stay away. BUt she says this stuff with a smile.
She also told me that she got all my texts and that's she's been busy and she was sorry she hasn't responded. I kept my cool and said "its all good, no worries, i understand" (basically not displaying any signs of neediness)
Anyway, I'm not gonna keep rambling on and on what happened but i kicked it in her office for almost 2.5 hours just talking. THen i brought up to her that i wanted to watch that public enemies movie which is coming out on July 1
and asked her if she wanted to come. She said "i dont go to the movies with guys that have girlfriends" with a smile on her face...so the way she said it, i took it as a positive. I told her, "that's cool, its all good". I also have these sun glasses that i bought that' she's jocking and she said she liked them and if she can borrow them, i told her NO (and i guess the answer surprised her, i was basically qualifying her at that point). Then i told her in a few months, my office will be by her job. She usually takes lunch at 3 pm since she comes in late. Then she tells me that when im down by her job, she wants to pick me up and go to lunch with me. I said "ya, thats' cool but I take lunch at 12 pm". and then she also said "also i want to visit you in your office". then i told her, "NO, you don't have to, but if you insist, then that's up to you". And she tells me "Well there's days where I come in early you know and we can eat out at 12 pm". I basically qualified her at that point. SO now i reversed her frame of mind about me on her. Everytime i see her, i always hug and kiss her cheek.
I wanna bone this girl so bad, an HB9, i wanna hear it from the DJs, how shall I proceed?