"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need advice on how to get a girlfriend

ziminxe79

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Iam 27..yes iam old but alone..Iam tried of being alone and i dont know what to do. Please dont get mad a me..Just need some help.:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigmil

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ask a girl out then treat her nice. That's the first step.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

radronOmega

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did you read the DJ bible? Or search the post "weapons of mass seduction" by senor fingers. Either of those will do.
 

bigmil

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by nice I mean exactly that -- take her out -- treat her like a lady. Don't try to run games with her. Date other girls but always be a gentleman. Believe it or not women respond well to nice guys. Look for signs that she is losing interest and if she does then implement some of the techniques you can learn in this forum such as not calling her, acting disinterested etc. Just be nice -- it's simple -- if she doesn't repond well to you being a nice guy then she is not emotionally mature enough to appreciate you.
If you're not good with women it means you lack the confidence needed to get a gf. The only way you will build that confidence is field work. Meet girls however you can -- myspace, online dating, friends or whatever. Date those girls and take all rejections as a learning experience. If you want it bad enough you will adapt to the challenges girls pose and your attitudes and behavior will change.
 
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