Ok. Well about 3 months ago this new girl started working at the night club that i work at. (7.5 looks, 10 on personality) so of course i did not hesitate to meet this girl and start teasing her and busting on her from the moment we met. she was kind of shy at first and didn't really say anything back because she was still the new girl and unsure, but after a couple of weeks she really turned up the flirting.
about a month ago, i was bartending and she was off that night, but she came out and started a tab with me. she was pretty heavily intoxicated that night and was leaning over the bar and pulling me face to face with her, basically described as "molesting me over the bar" by one of the other guys i work with. that night she told me that i was the cutest bartender there, to which i replied something like,"yes... i know. i can tell by the way you look at me that you've been thinking that for a while". 10 minutes later she came back again and said,"someone needs to tell you that i am much hotter than your girlfriend" in my opinion it isn't true, but she has a much funner personality than my girlfriend, plus my girlfriend is 3 years younger than both her and me. (we're 22)
that night she kept dropping hints about how she wanted me so after she finally loaded me up with about 5-6 shots i just said **** it, told her to meet me by the end of the bar, i grabbed her and kissed her. let me tell you, she's a bad kisser while she's drunk, which gave me another thing to tease her about. after kissing her she decided to leave about 15 minutes later because she couldn't possibly drink anymore, and her AFC friend that she was there with was getting upset at what was going on between her and I. keep in mind, she left without paying for her tab. so 5 minutes later they try to come back in through the back door, but we keep it locked on thursday nights so i let them in and she grabs me and kisses me again. i ask her why they came back and she said to see me, but her friend said to close her tab. so i run her credit card, give her the receipt to sign and she tips me 50 bucks on a 20 dollar tab, then leaves again.
for the past month while we are working, we've been doing nothing but flirting the whole time. pretty much everyone that i work with asks me when we are going to hook up. they all see whats going on between us. last weekend someone even blurted out, "would you two quit flirting and just go **** already?" last night, after we closed, we were cleaning up and we got into this big thing in front of almost everyone about how we are different kissers. she was saying how i like to kiss softly like a little baby to which i replied that i felt like her tongue was trying to prison rape my mouth. everyone was laughing and they all ask me when im going to close the deal...but the answer is that i honestly dont know!
now here's the problem. it's like there is a stalemate between us. i know she wants to do it. i think i made a mistake though in showing too much interest in her. last night i kind of lured her out from behind the bar into the back room and we were about to kiss again, but someone was passing through and "caught" us and made her realise what was going on. she knows that i was trying to kiss her because i was pulling her towards me. she knows that im living with my girlfriend and i know that she lives in the apartment above her boyfriend and i think that is whats keeping us from doing anything.
what i want to get out of this is to sleep with this girl and if she is as good in bed as she claims to be ( i can get girls to talk about almost anything in their private life) then get into a relationship with her. how do i break up with my current girlfriend and keep angel from thinking that im doing it to be with her? if she thinks that im breaking up with my current girl to be with her then i can almost guarantee that she's going to start playing hard to get. So how do i get her to invite me back to her place after work one night? my place is not an option because my girlfriend lives with me.
and a second option would be, how do i let her know that i would not mind having a "no strings attached" relationship with her where we could just be friends with benifeits. i know that if i could get her into bed just once she would definatly not object to doing it again.
about a month ago, i was bartending and she was off that night, but she came out and started a tab with me. she was pretty heavily intoxicated that night and was leaning over the bar and pulling me face to face with her, basically described as "molesting me over the bar" by one of the other guys i work with. that night she told me that i was the cutest bartender there, to which i replied something like,"yes... i know. i can tell by the way you look at me that you've been thinking that for a while". 10 minutes later she came back again and said,"someone needs to tell you that i am much hotter than your girlfriend" in my opinion it isn't true, but she has a much funner personality than my girlfriend, plus my girlfriend is 3 years younger than both her and me. (we're 22)
that night she kept dropping hints about how she wanted me so after she finally loaded me up with about 5-6 shots i just said **** it, told her to meet me by the end of the bar, i grabbed her and kissed her. let me tell you, she's a bad kisser while she's drunk, which gave me another thing to tease her about. after kissing her she decided to leave about 15 minutes later because she couldn't possibly drink anymore, and her AFC friend that she was there with was getting upset at what was going on between her and I. keep in mind, she left without paying for her tab. so 5 minutes later they try to come back in through the back door, but we keep it locked on thursday nights so i let them in and she grabs me and kisses me again. i ask her why they came back and she said to see me, but her friend said to close her tab. so i run her credit card, give her the receipt to sign and she tips me 50 bucks on a 20 dollar tab, then leaves again.
for the past month while we are working, we've been doing nothing but flirting the whole time. pretty much everyone that i work with asks me when we are going to hook up. they all see whats going on between us. last weekend someone even blurted out, "would you two quit flirting and just go **** already?" last night, after we closed, we were cleaning up and we got into this big thing in front of almost everyone about how we are different kissers. she was saying how i like to kiss softly like a little baby to which i replied that i felt like her tongue was trying to prison rape my mouth. everyone was laughing and they all ask me when im going to close the deal...but the answer is that i honestly dont know!
now here's the problem. it's like there is a stalemate between us. i know she wants to do it. i think i made a mistake though in showing too much interest in her. last night i kind of lured her out from behind the bar into the back room and we were about to kiss again, but someone was passing through and "caught" us and made her realise what was going on. she knows that i was trying to kiss her because i was pulling her towards me. she knows that im living with my girlfriend and i know that she lives in the apartment above her boyfriend and i think that is whats keeping us from doing anything.
what i want to get out of this is to sleep with this girl and if she is as good in bed as she claims to be ( i can get girls to talk about almost anything in their private life) then get into a relationship with her. how do i break up with my current girlfriend and keep angel from thinking that im doing it to be with her? if she thinks that im breaking up with my current girl to be with her then i can almost guarantee that she's going to start playing hard to get. So how do i get her to invite me back to her place after work one night? my place is not an option because my girlfriend lives with me.
and a second option would be, how do i let her know that i would not mind having a "no strings attached" relationship with her where we could just be friends with benifeits. i know that if i could get her into bed just once she would definatly not object to doing it again.
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