u need a new aura.
You are not a creep, i bet that much, otherwise you wouldnt be here.
Maybe you are and i will help you to hide it.
Ok.
I doubt its what you say. I can bet that its 90% about how you act.
Think about that.
You obviously do come on too strong and heavy to begin with. You probably want things so much its clouding you up on how to stay cool and not give a stuff.
You gotta chill out. You got to relax and you've got to stop "pushing" the bread lines and all the stuff that you are doing.....if girls are calling you a creep then you are not doing things right at all.
1st. You need to get a busy and active life. You are 'wanting' it too much, and when you do that you pay a price that places a drain on the relationship - any relationship short or long, 5 mins or 5 weeks. Ideally you shouldnt be bothered about girls for most of your week, and when it comes time to chat them up, you shouldnt even care that it works out or not.
2nd. You need to develop yourself from the ground up. I dont care if you have done it once already - do it again. If something is not working, then its up to you to fix it right away. If what you are doing now is not getting you the results you want, then you need to change it. Thats the bottom line.
Read the dj bible. Read it all. That is solid foundation stuff....it all starts from the inside out.
How you feel on the inside is reflected on the outside.
So dont go lean on yourself....spend a lot of time fixing yourself up and becoming a better person. The game man, i wil let you in on a little secret that not many people on here know about.....the game is 90% yourself and 10% her.
You are trying to attract. That means objects naturally want to get closer to you.
You ARE NOT trying to create or push or try too hard or do things that repulse.
Whilst you are working on youself, find out what attraction is, how to create it and how to use it to your advantage.
Then start to eliminate the things that are stopping you from attracting.
You got to get this stuff down pat....such stupid topics like: hygene, voice tone, the way you hold yourself, stance, your social status and showing it....all those things we give names to that are really just things that hot men do naturally.
I say to you start again from the start, because if girls are calling you a creep then you have built up the wrong mind-set about them...
Ok. So dont sit there and re-do every single thing, but go back over everything with a fine toothed comb and work out where you went wrong.
Do so objectively with a goal to finding a result that you can use.
This time do it properly. You sound as if you said some pretty canned lines to these girls or acted pretty AFC-like, or said stuff that was not in sync with the aura you give out.
Thats what i mean when i say go back over everything, and fill in the gaps as needed.
For instance if i go to the corner store right, and ask for a case of cheap beer....then while i am standing there i start talking to the store keeper, and say, "Yeah tonight i am getting 10 highly stylish friends of mine to come around to my mansion and we are going to swim in the spa naked with a lot of women who are very classy."
And you are saying that while you bought cheap booze, then you hop in your beat up car and make a loud noise driving away...and the store person goes outside and sees you driving away in some 1970's rust trap....
what do you expect her/him to think about you?
Thats why, you cant just change one thing or improve in one area......this dj stuff....it needs to be your whole life on the improve....
and it needs to be about you, not about the girls.
So when you say something to a girl, you know that it has weight behind it....its all about honesty with yourself....stop trying to fool people. You'll only be discovered.
I hope this has set you on the right course.....
also i hope they still have the dj boot camp up in the pdf file...because that one and the bible are the two good foundation sources to build upon...
