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I Need Advice on Approaching This Woman

Frank2500

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Folks,

There's a woman who often gets on my bus during the very early hours of the morning (8:30 a.m.) that I really want to make a move on. The unfortunate thing is, each time I see her, it's during an unfavorable environment. I haven't really had a chance to stand next to her because she often gets on the bus from a different stop, and of course, the bus is packed like crazy, making it extremely hard to hit on her around all those people sitting in the back. Today, I happened to be at the bus stop where she often gets on...but there were about 3 or 4 other people there, and she kept very far away until the bus eventually showed up. Plus, it snowed today and it's freezing, so definitely not the best weather. She often gives off this vibe as if she really doesn't want to talk to anyone, or as if she won't respond if a man were to walk up and say hi to her during those early morning hours.


But yet, the more opportunity I miss, the more I regret. I like her because she's incredibly curvaceous. Average height, blonde, and her ass is so heavy that it shakes when she walks and it always looks as if it's too big for her and that she has trouble carrying it on her body. I think it would be a foolish move for me to get off the bus at the same stop as her and attempt walking with her to talk to her, as for some strange reason, I think she's noticed me quite a few times on the bus and knows that I don't get off at her stop. Today though, and little did I know, I would have had a chance to try talking to her if I were sitting around her at the back of the bus. It was almost empty, and she didn't get off at her usual stop. But again, it certainly would have been dumb for me to leave my seat in the front and walk all the way to the back to try sitting next to her and talking to her. What should I do? The bus generally isn't the best place to hit on women, and that's the only place where I get to see her, on an overcrowded bus...and she's always rushing to get on or get off.
 

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azanon

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(walk over to her while waiting on bus) "Hi, how are you doing, my name is Frank, what's yours?"

I actually tried to think of something witty and had some decent ideas, but none of them beat the above suggestion. The worst thing that can happen is she acts like a b****. If so, big deal. You'll feel better because you tried. Then another one down, 150 million women in the US left.

Just think to yourself how lucky she is that you picked her to talk to. That's what I do.
 

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Frank2500 said:
Folks,

There's a woman who often gets on my bus during the very early hours of the morning (8:30 a.m.) that I really want to make a move on. The unfortunate thing is, each time I see her, it's during an unfavorable environment. I haven't really had a chance to stand next to her because she often gets on the bus from a different stop, and of course, the bus is packed like crazy, making it extremely hard to hit on her around all those people sitting in the back. Today, I happened to be at the bus stop where she often gets on...but there were about 3 or 4 other people there, and she kept very far away until the bus eventually showed up. Plus, it snowed today and it's freezing, so definitely not the best weather. She often gives off this vibe as if she really doesn't want to talk to anyone, or as if she won't respond if a man were to walk up and say hi to her during those early morning hours.


But yet, the more opportunity I miss, the more I regret. I like her because she's incredibly curvaceous. Average height, blonde, and her ass is so heavy that it shakes when she walks and it always looks as if it's too big for her and that she has trouble carrying it on her body. I think it would be a foolish move for me to get off the bus at the same stop as her and attempt walking with her to talk to her, as for some strange reason, I think she's noticed me quite a few times on the bus and knows that I don't get off at her stop. Today though, and little did I know, I would have had a chance to try talking to her if I were sitting around her at the back of the bus. It was almost empty, and she didn't get off at her usual stop. But again, it certainly would have been dumb for me to leave my seat in the front and walk all the way to the back to try sitting next to her and talking to her. What should I do? The bus generally isn't the best place to hit on women, and that's the only place where I get to see her, on an overcrowded bus...and she's always rushing to get on or get off.


Do you want me to summarize what these two lengthy paragraphs say about yourself?? Your making EXCUSES NOT TO APPROACH!! You've already had a number of opportunties to talk to her and you make some type of typical chump excuse. "It was too cold," "There were 3 or 4 other people around," who gives a $hit!! Let them watch and admire your skills!!

You don't need any help with approaching her, you need some balls! Here's the bottom line. If a woman is not repulsed by you, then you have an excellent chance of seducing her and starting something with her. You don't need the perfect moment or the perfect line. All you need is self-confidence and you'll get everything you want.





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Do you want me to summarize what these ^^^^ two lengthy paragraphs say about yourself?? Your making EXCUSES NOT TO APPROACH!! You've already had a number of opportunties to talk to her and your talking yourself out of it by making those typical chump excuses. "It was too cold," "There were 3 or 4 other people around," "she doesn't look like she wants to talk to anyone," who gives a $hit!! The difference between a ladies man and a chump is their mindset. If two girls walk by a ladies man and glance in his direction, he automatically assumes that they are interested and approaches. If those same two girls walked by a chump and glanced in his direction, he would assume he has something on his face or that they were staring at the billboard across the street, or making fun of him etc. Point is you'll never know unless you take action!!

You don't need any help with approaching her, you need some balls! Here's the bottom line. If a woman is not repulsed by you, then you have an excellent chance of seducing her and starting something with her. You don't need the perfect moment or the perfect line. All you need is self-confidence and you'll get everything you want.





PIMP
 
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