"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Need Advice......Helpppp

godjwood

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I dont' get what this girl's deal is. Last Sat. we went to an Xmas party it went well i kinda got drunk (she didn't) and talked too much but w/e the night ended up well we kissed and all that, but it's like she's giving me the cold shoulder and not making an effort to hangout.

I asked her to hangout Today (Tues.) and go see Kong she said 'I can't' no reason behind it just 'I can't' then i was like eh w/e just a fluke, so i asked her to go see a movie Fri. (the special olympic one woo hoo) and she said 'I think we're going to see family at my grandma's Fri.' It's like she's not making an effort and not even saying hey well if we can't Fri. then let's try for Saturday or next week.

And I leave to go to Europe next week 27th, and she knows that, and i come back on the 15th but it's like wtf what's her deal. She said she likes me, we kiss, so wtf is up????

Help Guys what's this chicks deal???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bourne

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First of all this is where you post TIPS, not ask for them.

Second. She might of felt like a slut kissing you on the first night she met you. She got to see you drunk, which might of been a turn off and she is plain NOT INTERESTED. STOP OVERANALYZING.
 

James Bondage

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OK so your going to Europe real soon. The thing to do then is NOT contact her when you come back (because she will expect this). If you don't it will make her wonder about you then hopefully she will come to you with the obligatory 'how was your trip to Europe?' convo. If she still displays low interest or doesn't bother to contact you, then... NEXT!!!
 
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